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Thursday, June 10, 2021

Miss Jenn Davis to Appear on Madison Young's NEW TV series "Submission Possible"

 Miss Jenn Davis spanks Madison Young on new TV Series Submission Possible

So I have some EXCITING NEWS to share with you.

A few months ago I filmed this episode with host Madison Young where we talk about spanking, implements, domestic discipline, and other kinky topics. At one point in the Seattle episode of her TV series, Submission Possible, I even get to spank her! She's got such an adorable & luscious bottom and she enjoys getting spanked (and who wouldn't want to go over my lap & get spanked?)

The Seattle episode will be coming out SOON & I will post more info on the VIP Premiere event in about a week. I will post that here & also on my website!

https://www.missjenndavis.com/p/phone.html

I also talk a bit about it on my podcast:

Click here for Miss Jenn's Spanking and All Things Femdom podcast

and of course, you can always call me on NiteFlirt.

We can talk about the show, talk about your kinks & fetishes, or just talk about life in general.

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Miss Jenn Davis talking about being on TV show Submission Possible



Thursday, May 6, 2021

"Crying as Cathartic Release" Article - Miss Jenn Davis

Hello, I'm Miss Jenn Davis.  I'm a Phone Dominatrix, Domestic Disciplinarian, Author (check me out on Amazon!), Spanking Model, Fetish Model and Content Producer. You can find out more about me on my website: https://www.missjenndavis.com/p/phone.html

Professional Disciplinarian Miss Jenn Davis

S. Nicole Lane interviewed me for an article on crying. My portion was about crying as a cathartic release but her entire article is much more than just that. It's about Dacryphilia. Dacryphilia is a form of paraphilia (sexual arousal from something outside the norm) where a person is aroused by tears or sobbing. The entire article is here: "Does Crying Turn You On?" by S. Nicole Lane and I really urge you read it. It's interesting, informative, and goes much more in-depth than what I wrote here.


woman spanking man to crying


If you don't have the time to read the entire article, which really goes in depth on the matter. Here is the portion that she wrote from interviewing me in regards to crying as cathartic release:

Crying as a Cathartic Release

Miss Jenn Davis, a professional disciplinarian and fetish model, explained that many of her submissives want to cry. She said that before seeing many of them, they usually send an email that states their goal is “to get spanked to the point of crying.” She went on to say that, “For some, it may be the bond that develops between spanker and spankee, and feeling unconditionally loved at the time of spanking. Feeling like the spanker really cares about their personal well-being and that they are being spanked out of a place of love and wanting to bring out the best in that person. If the person is wanting to be spanked for a reason or role play, I explain that if they want to have a better chance at crying, they need to have something that is an emotional reason for them."

As a professional spanker, Davis finds that, “Crying is very cathartic and and being able to ‘release’ those pent up emotions, all that stuff bottled up inside, sometimes for years or decades, is an amazing experience.”

Since tears are associated with negative emotions, it is often common to forget that tears, or sobbing, can be a therapeutic experience. For the crier, releasing their emotion can be a natural thing that results in them feeling refreshed and renewed.


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More about Miss Jenn Davis:
Miss Jenn Davis has spanked more bottoms than most. As a well-respected author and educator, she specializes in the playful sides of BDSM, from spanking (her first love) to ABDL, feminization, and humiliation. 
With insights gained from years in the lifestyle, she brings a unique perspective matched with practical advice for those interested in expanding their current relationships. Friendly and non-judgmental Jenn has helped individuals and couples of all types discover and express their fun and erotic inner selves.
She has appeared in print, online, TV and podcasts as an advocate for authentic human expression. Jenn is available for media appearances and individualized consulting. To contact her, send an email to: missjenn@pm.me
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Wednesday, May 5, 2021

My Article on SimplySxy - on JOI

First, I wrote an article on SimplySxy about a year ago:
https://simplysxy.com/articles/2018/07/08/what-to-know-about-joi/

During Jerkoff Instruction (JOI) a Domme (me) will tell and sometimes instruct a man how to masturbate. The instruction will usually tell men how hard or soft to jerk off, how rapid his strokes should be, and where and how firmly he should touch. 
There are two JOI: jerkoff encouragement (JOE) which is positive reinforcement helping a male to orgasm (think Pavlovian mentality with "good boys" included.), and jerkoff humiliation,  making the man feel dirty or ashamed of his arousal and desire to masturbate.
I do have a specific line for it here:

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Or you can request a custom (that will guide YOU specifically how to masturbate!)

Monday, February 26, 2018

Big Black Cock for your mouth you slut!

My line is open now for all of you horny Big Black Cock Worshippers that want to get on your knees and swallow cum. No need to hide your secret, I'm sure everybody knows that you are a closet cock worshipper. A closet worshipper that hides interracial porn and deny that you want to give oral sex to another man. Your place is on your knees begging for Big Black Cock. So many men call me and confess their obsession with cock. There is no certain type of man. I get calls from old men, young men, white, Latino, Asian and everything else in between. So many cock lovers that have dirty secrets. I know what you cock lovers are doing all day. Usually watching BBC porn, jerking your tiny cock and looking for a woman to call on Niteflirt. I know you sissy boys very well.
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Wednesday, January 17, 2018

So whatcha want?? How to please your Domme...


Here is another one from the search terms list: “how to please your Dominant”.

Let us back up just a little bit. What happens in a Dominant/submissive relationship? One thing that happens, or should happen, is that the Dominant learns about the submissive. The Dominant should always be learning as much as possible about her submissive. Learn about him as a person, as a submissive, as a sexual being, as a spiritual being. Learn about him who he is, what he likes, how he thinks how he feels, everything about him that a Dominant can know. Reciprocally, the submissive should be learning all she can about his Dominant.
The submissive should learn the Dominant’s likes and dislikes. The submissive should ask when he does not know what those might be in a situation. He should study the Dominant to see when she is pleased and when she is displeased. I recommend submissives keep journals to help them keep track of what things please their Dominants. But that is not all.
Once you learn a thing pleases your Dominant, practice it. Get better at it. This will please your Dominant not just because you do it better, but because your taking time to become better at it for her will be pleasing.

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Thursday, November 5, 2015

do you wanna touch me??? better yet...masturbate for me!

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Lube = Optional

DIFFICULTY = Basic



The most basic and common male masturbation technique is to simply grip the penis with a loose fist and then to move the hand up and down the shaft. This simple type of stimulation is usually all that is required to achieve a basic sexual climax and ejaculation. The objective is to create gentle friction that stimulates the sensitive nerves on the glans (top) of the penis, which causes a sensation of pleasure.

The "Full Fist" masturbation illustration (shown below) displays how all the fingers and thumb may be wrapped around the penis. However, the masturbator may choose to use only certain fingers. The up and down motion can be used at any comfortable speed during masturbation. The speed may vary according to the pleasure responses the masturbator feels during the session. Moving faster when approaching orgasm is common.

If the penis is uncircumcised, the masturbator can pump the skin up and down to cause it to glide across the shaft and the glans. If the penis is circumcised, lubrication may be required if the friction from masturbation causes discomfort.

Tip - The "Stop-and-Go" - Many men like to stop for a moment and then start again to prolong the masturbating session. In addition to stopping and starting, squeezing the penis to cause the erection to subside a little bit during the stop period can also add to the time before orgasm.



Class is in session!

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Tuesday, October 13, 2015

Know your place with a SSBBW

I love my callers that call and worship my beautiful goddess ass, body and feet. Yes my feet I have tons of callers that love to worship my feet and buy custom pics of my beautiful sexy feet. These men go crazy over my bodacious assets. Men that crave ample thighs and legs call and pay and send tributes to me and amazon gifts because they are addicted to my beautiful goddess body. Most men get tired of the same average looking women with the same body measurements. Men love the challenge of sexy full figured asses on a SSBBW. Some are too shy to approach a large women so they do it through ssbbw phonesex and worship through money and gifts.
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Friday, August 14, 2015

A great find!

Main Page It is the mission of the BDSMwiki.info to collect knowledge and share around the globe about BDSM practices; to set forth its general systems of best practices, medical information, risk assessment and technical data to those who practice BDSM and those who wish to learn of it, and to transmit it to those who will come after us.

The BDSM WIki!!!!

http://www.bdsmwiki.info/Main_Page

Monday, August 3, 2015

Corrupt Innocence Phone Sex

Corrupt Innocence Phone Sex is a naughty game I play with a Preacher from Virginia. I've turned my good boy into some what of a wicked man.

Tease the PreacherIn his own words praying no longer helps him resist me. ~giggle~ He only wants to give in to my soft sensual temptation. He stands in front of the congregation and gets hard just thinking of the naughty ideas I've placed deep into his mind.

Panties? Well yes Preacher I said go buy them and do it today. Sex? No! Not again, not with your wife. We'll leave her in confusion twisted just as you are, as I laugh in your face. I love this game we play.

I'll use you as I see fit preacher, and leave you begging me for more. Always needing, never forgetting. I'm your Mistress and you are here to serve.

Talk soon.
Mistress Peyton

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Monday, July 27, 2015

Ruined by Blackmail

PHOTOGRAPHY BY PAT LYTTLEHere we are again... asking to be Ruined by Blackmail. Silly boy, I've told you over and again careful what you ask Mistress for due to the nature of the kink you have it would be so simple to take everything you have and create a world or fetish wonderland for me.

Let's stop off at trust. Do you trust me to keep those kinks of yours a secret? Oh not the normal ones it's the "other" ones that I've created within you. Am I making you nervous by visiting that aspect of your life? Good! Just remember you asked me to.

I'll expose you for being the Shoe Boy, Panty Boy or for being a Cock Sucker in Training or for needing to be owned by a Mistress, I'll expose and Ruin You for so many fetish and kinks all because you've asked me to.  I'll continue to keep you needing more.

Talk Soon
Mistress Peyton

 
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Thursday, May 21, 2015

Munches, what are they? BDSM 101

Here's a great resource for finding munches in your area:
http://bdsm-101.com/Munches.html

A munch (derived from "burger munch") is a casual social gathering for people involved in or interested in BDSM. Munches often take place at a restaurant, bar, or coffee shop; the organizer usually reserving a large table, a back area, or a private room. People are free to arrive and leave within the specified hours. The primary purpose is socializing, although some munches also have announcements or demonstrations from local organizations or individuals. Munches are meant to help those who are curious about BDSM meet others, become more comfortable, and better informed. Munches can also be a place to get advice, or pass on anecdotes about BDSM experiences.

More recently, munches dedicated to people into polyamory have sprung up around the U.S. They function much the same as BDSM munches, with perhaps more focus on talking about poly relationships. Some come with food, and there are now some "Liquid Munches" that are held, usually early enough for conversation to be possible, in bars.

Unlike a play party, most munches are informal affairs that discourage fetish attire or BDSM play.[citation needed] However some munches may be held as a get-together prior to a more formal play party, or other groups may be open to the wearing of collars or pride emblems; as such, covert Master/slave interactions, fetish dress, or other BDSM play maybe observed.

Munches have changed with time and with increasing social acceptability of BDSM and fetish lifestyles. Many have expanded to include more people, topics and philosophies.[citation needed] Some munches may have a specific focus, such as spirituality, or whips. Others may be restricted to a specific group; such as women, or submissives. Munches can be very specific to their region, city, or neighbourhood, and regional groups will often host member's only meetings. Each munch is different and reflects the personality of the group that attends it.

Many munch organizers post their event information on social networking sites, some may use e-mail or mailing lists. Local BDSM groups may announce a munch in-person at a meeting, on a community calendar or newsletter, or on their own websites.

*taken from Wikipedia*

Likeminded individuals--you'd be surprised. In the meantime, I've got a RT to Virtual experience on NF that would be of interest to newcomers to the lifestyle. This isn't a game, this isn't "for shits and giggles" it's a LIFESTYLE.

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Saturday, April 4, 2015

Ebony Cumslut Phone Whore to get you through the weekend

Hey guys I'm online waiting for you to call me with a kinky story or a sex confession. Are you cheating? Addicted to masturbating? Just horny with a rock hard boner? I know the feeling of being horny and wanting to cum while home alone or while traveling. I do a lot of traveling. I worked as a stylist and a stewardess. I'm here for your kinky cuckolding fantasies or real life stories. Some of my callers really live in cuckolding homes, or have a real life mistress in their life. I never get tired of hearing about dirty naughty fetishes. Watching porn and reading dirty sex stories is something I do daily. That's why I love phone sex. I can lay down in my bed and listen to a complete stranger wank his hard cock and have an awesome orgasm. That makes my pussy tingle and my nipples stick out. Im online this weekend to make your dirty fantasies become a dirty reality.
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Friday, April 3, 2015

Slut Cougar for No taboo Phonesex

I know a lot of you men like to talk to young sexy phonesex girls in their early twenties, and that's all great. But when you need a sensual stroke of a mature woman give me a call. I'm into cuckolding, BDSM, foot fetish, and financial domination. Do you need me to be the kinky slut next door, or the evil librarian that pulls you into the office and give you a spanking on your bottom. The weekend is cumming and I know some of you men having been working hard and need to bust a load. I'm talking a cum load. Tired of your nagging wife? Bored at work? Just horny for no reason? Give me a call and I'll make you forget about your problems. Who better than a mature phonesex cougar. I'll keep it a secret.
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Sunday, November 23, 2014

Bizarre Fetishes -- the more you know and NO JUDGEMENT

10 Of The Most Bizarre Fetishes

From here: http://www.blokebuddy.com/2010/humour/10-of-the-most-bizarre-fetishes/

”I think most of us men are guilty of experimenting with some sort of fetish, indulging in a bit of roleplay? maybe being tied up and spanked? or perhaps partaking in a bit of necrophilia? (hopefully not) but if you dig deep enough the Internet can reveal some of the most bizarre and genuine fetishes that people actually enjoy. Here is a list of 10 fetishes that are weirder than your grandad wearing Reebok’s.

1. Symphorophilia Kicking off the list is the fetish called Symphorophilia which means that a person gets sexually aroused by natural disasters, so if your wondering why you felt the urge to reach for the Kleenex when the Haiti earthquake came on the news, This is why.

2. Klismaphilia This fetish means a person gets sexual gratification through receiving an enema, I fail to see the attraction myself but just be wary if your mate is overly enthusiastic about having one.

3. Hemotigolagnia A Hemotigolagniac is someone who gets turned on by ’sanitary pads’ Either used or not, watch out for the dude ramming allways ultra into a shopping trolley whilst dribbling.

4. Harpaxophilia A Harpaxophiliac gets heavily aroused at the thought of being burgled, this makes me wonder what is wrong with the human race, someone getting their rocks whilst having there Xbox nicked is ludicrous, and I can imagine quite unpleasant for the burglar too!

5. Nasolingus Picking my your nose and flicking it is a pretty fun past time for many men, but do this around someone with Nasolingus (someone who is aroused by bogeys) you could find yourself in an uncomfortable situation.

6. Parthenophagy This one is a bit dark, a person with this fetish gets turned on by the thought of eating (not eating out) young girls or virgins, so any virgins should get laid now in case you end up in a stew.

7. Tripsolagnia A person with this fetish gets sexual pleasure from having there hair shampooed, step away from the Timotei!

8. Avisodomy Someone who gets sexual gratification from having sex with birds, no wonder Bill Oddie is always smiling, dirty bastard.

9. Catheterophilia I have no idea why but a person with this fetish gets turned on by ‘catheters’ what they actually do with a catheter to get sexual pleasure from it is a mystery.

10. Nosolagnia This is weird, a person that has this fetish gets ‘happy’ knowing there partner has a terminal illness….what is wrong with people, a box of tissues and the underwear section of a Kay’s catalogue is just not enough for some people!

Got a fetish? an idea of a roleplay?

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Monday, September 22, 2014

some basic definitions...

bdsm scene

BDSM is a variety of erotic practices involving dominance and submission, role-playing, restraint, and other interpersonal dynamics.

Mistress - a title for a female Dominant - "Mistress" is very commonly the title used for a professional Dominatrix, although not exclusively. Some lifestyle Dominant women might choose the title Mistress. There is, for some women, a negative connotation with this title - especially those of us who are a little older. In earlier times, in the vanilla world, "Mistress" was the name given to the illicit lover of a married man.

BDSM - Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission, Sadism & Masochism. A term which came into use in the 1990's, thanks to the internet.
SSC - Safe, Sane and Consensual
RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink
Subspace - a feeling of euphoria, similar to a morphine high, experienced by bottoms during an intense BDSM scene
Topspace - a feeling of being in "the zone" when in control of a BDSM scene - the Top may become oblivious to surroundings
Subdrop - an emotional state resulting from the disappearance of the exhilaration of Subspace - can be up to 3 days later
Topdrop - an emotional state resulting from the let down after an intense scene
Aftercare - the administration of nurturing care and emotional support to each other after a BDSM scene

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Sunday, August 17, 2014

the more you know...

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Friday, April 25, 2014

Want to go flying with me? I'll take you there...to subspace.

Subspace: Subspace happens in two different situations. There is the first scenario where a submissive physiologically is sent to subspace via impact play. Instead of safe wording, the submissive disconnects, the stress on the body too much and the hormones kick in. This means that the submissive steps out of his or her body and shuts out the experience as his or body fights the hurt with hormones and endorphins kicking in. The other scenario, the psychological is the good stuff. This is where you enter an altered state; one where you disconnect, only in a pleasant way. There is a strong draw to your Dominant. Not necessarily one of sexual arousal, though that may be a part. The first stage is tingly, floaty...warm... Often at this point the submissives start to goad/provoke a Dominant or say things that others may laugh at during the scene without realizing that they are doing so. It is very cute and is most often accompanied by giggles and snorts of derision. The next level goes deeper, where the ditzy feelings begin. Forgetting commands, looking spacey, intoxicated feelings; speaking slows if not stops and the submissive is reliant on the Dominant to monitor them. The final section is primal. Moaning, grunting, multiple orgasms (sometimes without touching), hypersensitivity to tactile and other forms of sensory input.... and being completely out of it. But then...the body drops from the high...and aftercare from your Dominant begins. Subspace is a warm and fuzzy place if you are safe with your dominant. You will find that once you experience it, the longing to experience it again will be something you will have to control. Let's go...I'm booking flights :) DJ
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Thursday, September 26, 2013

A good how to...


Taken from the wiki! Enjoy!

http://www.wikihow.com/Have-Phone-Sex


Have Phone Sex
Phone sex is a great way to spice up your sex life, whether you're having phone sex with your significant other because he or she is away on a trip, or just because you're in the mood. If you want to be great at phone sex, then you have to let lose, stop being self-conscious, and get ready to get turned on, no matter how silly you may feel at first. If you want to know how to have phone sex, just follow these easy steps.

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Adjust Your Mindset

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    Set up a phone date. This is the first thing you should do before you jump into phone sex. If you’ve never had phone sex before, you don’t have to call lit a “phone sex date” – just make sure you pick a time when both of you are free, and when you know that you’ll both be alone and will be free to let your inhibitions loose. Your plan won’t work if you’ll be rolling around in your bed, feeling hot and heavy, while your man will be chatting with you outside the library.

    • Be cute when you make the “appointment.” You can use your tone and flirt to indicate what you really have in mind for this phone date.
  2. 2
    Let loose. You need to relax completely before you have phone sex. If you’re not comfortable with the process and think it’s silly or artificial, your man will be able to tell. So, to get loose, lay around in bed, feel comfortable, and even have a glass of wine or two if you want to.Just do anything that will make you comfortable and relaxed!

    • You can dance to a silly song in front of the mirror, or run in place for a minute – do whatever you have to do to shake the tension out of your body and to get it on via phone.
  3. 3
    Set the mood in your own home. If you want to have phone sex, then you should set up a sexy atmosphere in your bedroom. You won’t be in the mood for sex if your bed is covered in textbooks or if the news is on and your room looks dirty under bright, garish lights. Instead, clean off your bed and space, dim the lights, and play some soft music. You can even consider lighting some candles.

    • Do whatever you would do to prepare your room for real sex. This will help get you in a sexy mindset.
  4. 4
    Feel sexy. If you want to have phone sex, then you should be able to feel sexy in the process. To feel sexy, make sure you take a nice long shower, shave whatever you need to shave, and put on something that makes you feel hot, whether it’s sexy lingerie or your best polo. You can even caress yourself in the shower to prime your body.

    • To get ready for phone sex, you should look like you’d look before you’d have real sex. You wouldn’t have sex when you’re wearing sweatpants and haven’t showered in two days, would you?
  5. 5
    Get turned on. You shouldn’t touch yourself before you make your phone call, or it may end too quickly, but you should lie in bed, caress your body gently, and picture what it would be like to have your man or woman next to you. Imagine how great it would feel to have his body next to yours and close your eyes and think of the last time you and your significant other had mind-blowing sex. Once you’re ready, it’s time to make the call.

Start Having Phone Sex

  1. 1
    Make contact. When you first call your lover, talk in a slightly softer and lower voice than usual. Be a little coy, but still let your lover know how excited you are to hear from him. You can start slow—you don’t have to get into the hot and heavy language right away, or things may be moving too fast.

    • First, ask how your significant other’s day went. Tell him you’re doing great too—don’t go into any details. Don’t get distracted from your sexy goal.
    • Say something casual but clearly hot like, “I wish you were right here next to me” or “I’ve been thinking about you all day.”
  2. 2
    Talk about what you’re wearing. First, let your significant other know what you’re wearing and how your body looks in it. This works best for girls. If you’re a guy, focus on what your girl is wearing by asking her what her panties look like, what outfit or dress she’s wearing, and how her chest looks in it.

    • If you’re a girl, slowly describe what you’re wearing in a flirtatious tone. Put on a pair of your man’s favorite panties and let him know how they look on you.
  3. 3
    Talk about how much you want each other. Next, move on to talking about how you wish you were with that person, and how much you miss his body. You can go into detail—talk about your favorite parts of his body, and how much you wish he was right there next to you. Then, talk about what you’d do if you were together—talk about the things you’d do to him, and the things you’d want him to do to you.
    • You can start slow here too. You can start with, “First, I’d stroke your hair,” and work your way up to “Then I’d gently kiss your neck,” and get more explicit if you’re comfortable.
  4. 4
    Talk about what you’re doing to yourself. Once you’re more comfortable, tell your man what you’re doing to yourself. Tell him, “I’m tracing my thigh with my finger” or “I’m running my hands over my breasts.” It can be as raunchy or as explicit as you want it to be. You can also ask him for advice: “Should I start playing with my underwear?” and of course, he’ll say yes.
    • Tell your significant other what to do. Ask him to start unbuttoning his pants, or ask her to throw her hair back for you.
  5. 5
    Talk about how turned on you are. Let your significant other know how the phone sex is making you feel. Tell him that he’s driving you crazy, that your whole body is tingling, or just that you’re unbelievably turned on. Say, “I can’t believe I’m this turned on without even being next to you. That’s how amazing you are.”
    • To turn yourselves on even more, you can even talk about a time when you had really great sex. Say, “Remember when you did that thing to me in the shower?” And both of you will be even more excited.

Finish Strong

  1. 1
    Take off your clothes (optional). If you want to go all out, then you should take off your clothes, or at least some of them. You can let your lover know what it looks like when you unbutton your shirt, slide your pants down, or unhook your bra. If you really want to get turned on, then take off all of your clothes—that’s what you do during normal sex, isn’t it?

    • If it’s your first time having phone sex or you just don’t feel comfortable getting naked all by yourself, then that’s okay too. Just do whatever works for you.
  2. 2
    Touch yourselves. No phone sex is complete without some mutual masturbation. Let your man or woman know when you’ve lowered your hands into your pants and are starting to play with yourself. If you’re a girl, start touching yourself before your man does—it’ll probably take longer for you to orgasm.
    • Describe the process. Let your phone partner know exactly how you’re making yourself feel, and describe the sensations running through your body.
  3. 3
    Orgasm. Once you’re ready to come, let your lover know. Ideally, you’ll climax at the same time, but that happens just about as often as it does during real sex. Let him hear your hot and heavy breathing and your moans as you feel true pleasure. And if you orgasm before your lover does, don’t stop being sexy. Continue to tell him how great you feel and how much you want him to come.
    • Once you both orgasm, just listen to your breathing on the phone for a minute. Don’t get off on the phone right away, but take the time to enjoy the after-effects of a great phone sex session.
  4. 4
    Get off the phone. Once your breathing has returned to normal and you’re ready to go, tell your lover how much fun you had talking to him and that you can’t wait to have phone sex again soon. Don’t talk about your days or fall into the routine of boring conversation—you can do that another time. For now, stay sexy and get off the phone not too long after sex.
    • This will make your lover want you even more, and both of you will be excited at the thought of more phone sex in the near future.