Showing posts with label Dominatrix. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dominatrix. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 31, 2023

so if you follow me on Insta...

If you follow me on Insta, you'll need to update it, they don't like sexworkers there...so...
long story short...I've a new one:


that ugly business aside, here's a little short story I put together...enjoy!


Wanda had been a police officer for many years, but she had a secret side job that she kept hidden from her colleagues. She was also a professional dominatrix, and she had a dungeon in her home that she used to dominate her clients. One day, a man named Charles came to her for a session. He was a submissive, and he wanted to be dominated by Officer Wanda. She welcomed him into her dungeon, and she could tell he was nervous. To put him at ease, she started by talking to him, getting to know him and his desires. She then began to explain the rules of the dungeon and what she expected from him. Charles was eager to please, and he followed all of Officer Wanda’s instructions without hesitation. She began by blindfolding him and tying him up with rope. She then proceeded to tease and tantalize him with her hands and various toys. She spanked him, flogged him, and even used a vibrator on him. Charles was in a state of pure bliss, and he followed her every command. After a few hours of intense play, Officer Wanda decided to end the session. She untied Charles and removed the blindfold. She then gave him a hug and thanked him for coming. Charles thanked her for the experience and left with a smile on his face. Officer Wanda had successfully dominated Charles in her dungeon, and she was proud of herself. She had taken a timid submissive and turned him into a willing participant. It was a job well done, and she was looking forward to her next session.

Charles was driving home from work one evening when he noticed a police car in his rearview mirror. He had been driving the speed limit, so he was surprised to see the car following him. He pulled over to the side of the road and waited for the officer to approach. When the police officer stepped out of the car, Charles was taken aback. She was a tall, imposing figure with a stern expression on her face. She wore a police uniform, but it was obvious that she was a woman. Her name tag read “Officer Wanda.” Charles was nervous as Officer Wanda approached his car. He had heard stories, or maybe rumors is a better word, about her from his friends He knew that she was a strict and uncompromising officer. He was also aware that she was a Dominatrix, and he was worried that she might take advantage of him. Officer Wanda asked Charles for his license and registration. He handed them over, and she examined them carefully. She then asked him why he had been driving so slowly. Charles explained that he had been tired from a long day at work and had been trying to be careful. Officer Wanda seemed to accept his explanation, but she still asked him to step out of the car. She then proceeded to search him, running her hands over his body in a way that made him feel uncomfortable. She then asked him to turn around and bend over the hood of the car. Charles was embarrassed and scared, but he complied. Officer Wanda then proceeded to handcuff him and place him in the back of her police car. She didn’t give any explanation, and he certaininly didn’t believe he’d done anything wrong. She drove him to the station, where she booked him for a minor traffic violation. At the station, Officer Wanda asked Charles if he wanted to make a deal. She said that if he agreed to be her submissive for a night, she would let him go without any charges. Charles was hesitant, but he eventually agreed. That night, Charles found himself in Officer Wanda’s dungeon. She had him dress in a feminine outfit and then proceeded to dominate him. She spanked him, teased him, and made him do all sorts of humiliating things. First, she had him polish her boots, with his tongue. This included the soft supple leather, but it also included the dirty rubber sole.

Next it was onto a good spanking session. Wanda had a paddle that looked a bit like a ping-pong paddle, but it had holes drilled in it. She paddled his ass 100 times, as hard as she could.

Finally, she demanded Charles pleasure her with his tongue. When it was all over, Officer Wanda let Charles go. He was relieved to be free, but he was also embarrassed and ashamed. He had been feminized and humiliated by a female police officer who was also a Dominatrix. He vowed to never let himself be in that situation again.


Thursday, July 15, 2021

Racial (Asian) Fetishization

Asian women are often forced into a caricature as either docile or sexually alluring, dutiful or domineering, the “wilting flower” or the “dragon lady,” caught between two contradictory labels imposed by men’s sexual fantasies and normalized through portrayals in film, television, plays and public policy. In the case of the Atlanta shooting on March 16, where six of the eight victims were Asian women, they were murdered because of these stereotypes. The shooter denied that he committed a hate crime and said that he was motivated by his “sex addiction,” but that excuse is rooted in the historic racist and sexist stereotypes imposed on Asian women.

In a society with a growing awareness of racial issues, the fetishization of Asian women is still normalized. From a study analyzing users’ demographic data and activity on the Facebook dating app “Are You Interested,” researchers found that men of all races, with the exception of Asian men, preferred Asian women. Although having a dating preference seems harmless, claiming to be attracted most to a specific race — especially a group as diverse as Asian women — is problematic because that attraction is likely based on harmful stereotypes about that race. 

You’re doing a disservice to both yourself and others when you refuse to see people past these preconceived labels. Being seen like a sexual object when I haven’t done anything to be seen like that is generally upsetting.

You’re doing a disservice to both yourself and others when you refuse to see people past these preconceived labels. Being seen like a sexual object when I haven’t done anything to be seen like that would be upsetting.

I bring this up as on Niteflirt, I am expected to either be docile or Dragon Lady. I am neither and both! I am naturally Dominant as my mom is Hawaiian and naturally dominant. No, I don't speak Korean and no, I don't have an accent. I am 3rd generation Korean and I was born and raised in San Francisco, now residing in Seattle.

Look, I get it, my looks are unique. When you are ready to delve deeper than what's on the surface, give me a call. (Be prepared to submit to a woman that likes to be in control)

Find me on Niteflirt here.



Thursday, February 28, 2019

Pimpstress Mistress Thick - Ebony Supreme Goddess


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Coining herself as the "Only authentic Pimpstress on Niteflirt" and rightfully so, Mistress Thick aka Pimpstress Mistress definitely ranks high in the ebony Domme category.   407 feedback with a 5 star rating, what can you expect from this Supreme Ebony Queen?  As one of her listings says "change the trajectory of your life."

Mistress Thick is a true life Dominatrix, living the lifestyle 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.  Authentic indeed but also domination comes naturally, not forced or rehearsed for the audience.   With an education background, this well spoken but sadistic Domme seduces your mind into turning your fantasy into reality.  Ultimately, you are destined to become your best version of yourself under the direction and control of this gorgeous Pimpstress.


What are you waiting for?  Your destiny lies in the hands of this Superior Ebony Queen, call and claim it now!


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Monday, February 25, 2019

An encounter with a Phone Domme - Mistress DJ

Sexual Encounter-
It all began so simple - an ad for a phonesex company.
An image, a promotional blurb a resume of filth and of kink. A desire that was contained in her grey eyes - was that a wall of restraint or torturous gates keeping him out?
Then she sent him a text/sext--she commanded 'I want to talk to you'.. 'I want you to stroke for me'.. 'Isn't it time you gave up control?'..
His heart pounding so strongly was it fear or lust?
Imagining all of dark fantasies that had lingered for many years before....
Pictures imagined and expectations created...
He dialed the phone...igniting ignition for his rocket ship.
She answered with "Hello, who is this?"
She has everything prepared, like an exquisite execution of a blueprint. She needed no introduction...
he gave her a name...a name to be called with trembling and trepidation in his voice...
'Why are you shaking pet? ', 'Are you afraid? '
he cannot answer...between his raging erection and her low calm tone he's slipping under into subspace.
'I feel so funny...' he says, unable to formulate what he's feeling.
'That's normal, that's subspace...just savor it." the Mistress reassures.
She uses him as her play thing as long as she wishes...all night long. He wonders if it's sexually exciting for her too, but he dare not ask.
He is her slave for the moment. She can have him any way she could imagine.
He could spend hours between her legs; at her feet; at her whims.
'Get on your knees, pet and wait.'
She speaks of edging, of control and of chastity.
She explains as a pet nothing is his.
His cock, his time and his wallet are all hers to do with as she will.

It feels as if months had gone by in his mind until the next time he can speak to The One..
She asks him if he wants to stay, to live in her world forever? She gives him assignments to soothe his sub-frenzy... But before he can think to answer;  She has vanished...she now dwells deep in the recesses of his mind as well as his loins...


To be continued....


Wednesday, July 18, 2018

About JOI (as featured on Simplysxy.com) by MIstress DJ

What Is Jerk Off Instruction


JOI, or Jerk Off Instruction is guided masturbation. Essentially, it’s my belief that if a man is left on his own to “Jerk Off” then he’ll just get at it; sadly not savoring or enjoying it. I really enjoy having a man take his time, explore the different parts of his cock (penis), as well as different methods, rhythms and “games” that can come with JOI. I enjoy when a man ejaculates, and laughs saying, “Yhat might have been my best orgasm ever.”

That’s a sign I did something right. I adore men. Orgasms should be savored – enjoy the build up – enjoy the edge…then finally have a nice explosive (or a sweet wet) release. I must say that I didn’t come up with this all on my own, a dear friend of mine from Nevada is a retired Brothel Worker – and what I have the guys to is loosely based on how she would give them a mind blowing hand job (only translated into self pleasure!)

Why Men Love JOI


JOI is safe. You aren’t cheating on your partner, you won’t catch any diseases and no one will get pregnant! Most men need to cum/ejaculate at least every 3 days or so – JOI gives them a different (and fun most of the time) way to do it. Men, traditionally, have more high-stress jobs; they make decisions all day that are high stress – so same reason a man might come to see a Domme or FemDom are the same reasons he would come to me for JOI –to give up control/power, if only for a while. (Power exchange, no thinking needed…just do as he’s told.)


JOI Misconceptions


One of the main ones is the method of delivery – most people can’t figure out how or where to get good JOI. Fortunately, there are many ways – if you’re just looking for general JOI there are plenty of free porn sites with videos (with JOI) or web teases…even forums and erotica sites all with free jerk off instructions. However, if a fella wants something custom, specific to his fetishes or more interaction – there’s phone sex, custom video, custom audio and even sexting (not to mention cam sites or cam to cam).


Typical JOI Sessions


I tend to deliver JOI two ways (outside of in person Domme sessions of course). The first is phone sex (which is nice, because I can hear his breathing, stroking, moans etc) and the second being MP3’s (recorded instructions). Sometimes I put a simple roleplay with it (I’m the neighbor that caught you wanking, I’m your teacher, I’m whoever they need me to be…) but sometimes it’s just simple masturbation guidance.

I encourage them to get as naked as they are comfortable with. To get (and use) some good quality lube (something that won’t dry out or get sticky) Then, I guide them through how to stroke their cocks, the speed in which to do it…sometimes there’s edging, sometimes a countdown, sometimes denial and sometimes an amazing explosive orgasm. (All sort of depending on what the client is seeking.)



Mistress DJ – Mistress DJ is a Pro-Domme that got her start in 2001 in Nevada. After working doing real time sessions, she moved to the countryside. Though she still does real-time sessions on occasion – she mostly has translated her style of Domination to online. Considered a veteran by many, she’s quick to help other women in the adult industry and will repeat “she loves her life as a Domme.”

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I am continually creating new mp3’s (with JOI) and am available for custom recordings as well as live phone calls.