Showing posts with label Dominatrix. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dominatrix. Show all posts

Thursday, July 15, 2021

Racial (Asian) Fetishization

Asian women are often forced into a caricature as either docile or sexually alluring, dutiful or domineering, the “wilting flower” or the “dragon lady,” caught between two contradictory labels imposed by men’s sexual fantasies and normalized through portrayals in film, television, plays and public policy. In the case of the Atlanta shooting on March 16, where six of the eight victims were Asian women, they were murdered because of these stereotypes. The shooter denied that he committed a hate crime and said that he was motivated by his “sex addiction,” but that excuse is rooted in the historic racist and sexist stereotypes imposed on Asian women.

In a society with a growing awareness of racial issues, the fetishization of Asian women is still normalized. From a study analyzing users’ demographic data and activity on the Facebook dating app “Are You Interested,” researchers found that men of all races, with the exception of Asian men, preferred Asian women. Although having a dating preference seems harmless, claiming to be attracted most to a specific race — especially a group as diverse as Asian women — is problematic because that attraction is likely based on harmful stereotypes about that race. 

You’re doing a disservice to both yourself and others when you refuse to see people past these preconceived labels. Being seen like a sexual object when I haven’t done anything to be seen like that is generally upsetting.

You’re doing a disservice to both yourself and others when you refuse to see people past these preconceived labels. Being seen like a sexual object when I haven’t done anything to be seen like that would be upsetting.

I bring this up as on Niteflirt, I am expected to either be docile or Dragon Lady. I am neither and both! I am naturally Dominant as my mom is Hawaiian and naturally dominant. No, I don't speak Korean and no, I don't have an accent. I am 3rd generation Korean and I was born and raised in San Francisco, now residing in Seattle.

Look, I get it, my looks are unique. When you are ready to delve deeper than what's on the surface, give me a call. (Be prepared to submit to a woman that likes to be in control)

Find me on Niteflirt here.



Thursday, February 28, 2019

Pimpstress Mistress Thick - Ebony Supreme Goddess


Call MistressThick for phone sex on Niteflirt.com


Coining herself as the "Only authentic Pimpstress on Niteflirt" and rightfully so, Mistress Thick aka Pimpstress Mistress definitely ranks high in the ebony Domme category.   407 feedback with a 5 star rating, what can you expect from this Supreme Ebony Queen?  As one of her listings says "change the trajectory of your life."

Mistress Thick is a true life Dominatrix, living the lifestyle 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.  Authentic indeed but also domination comes naturally, not forced or rehearsed for the audience.   With an education background, this well spoken but sadistic Domme seduces your mind into turning your fantasy into reality.  Ultimately, you are destined to become your best version of yourself under the direction and control of this gorgeous Pimpstress.


What are you waiting for?  Your destiny lies in the hands of this Superior Ebony Queen, call and claim it now!


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Monday, February 25, 2019

An encounter with a Phone Domme - Mistress DJ

Sexual Encounter-
It all began so simple - an ad for a phonesex company.
An image, a promotional blurb a resume of filth and of kink. A desire that was contained in her grey eyes - was that a wall of restraint or torturous gates keeping him out?
Then she sent him a text/sext--she commanded 'I want to talk to you'.. 'I want you to stroke for me'.. 'Isn't it time you gave up control?'..
His heart pounding so strongly was it fear or lust?
Imagining all of dark fantasies that had lingered for many years before....
Pictures imagined and expectations created...
He dialed the phone...igniting ignition for his rocket ship.
She answered with "Hello, who is this?"
She has everything prepared, like an exquisite execution of a blueprint. She needed no introduction...
he gave her a name...a name to be called with trembling and trepidation in his voice...
'Why are you shaking pet? ', 'Are you afraid? '
he cannot answer...between his raging erection and her low calm tone he's slipping under into subspace.
'I feel so funny...' he says, unable to formulate what he's feeling.
'That's normal, that's subspace...just savor it." the Mistress reassures.
She uses him as her play thing as long as she wishes...all night long. He wonders if it's sexually exciting for her too, but he dare not ask.
He is her slave for the moment. She can have him any way she could imagine.
He could spend hours between her legs; at her feet; at her whims.
'Get on your knees, pet and wait.'
She speaks of edging, of control and of chastity.
She explains as a pet nothing is his.
His cock, his time and his wallet are all hers to do with as she will.

It feels as if months had gone by in his mind until the next time he can speak to The One..
She asks him if he wants to stay, to live in her world forever? She gives him assignments to soothe his sub-frenzy... But before he can think to answer;  She has vanished...she now dwells deep in the recesses of his mind as well as his loins...


To be continued....


Wednesday, July 18, 2018

About JOI (as featured on Simplysxy.com) by MIstress DJ

What Is Jerk Off Instruction


JOI, or Jerk Off Instruction is guided masturbation. Essentially, it’s my belief that if a man is left on his own to “Jerk Off” then he’ll just get at it; sadly not savoring or enjoying it. I really enjoy having a man take his time, explore the different parts of his cock (penis), as well as different methods, rhythms and “games” that can come with JOI. I enjoy when a man ejaculates, and laughs saying, “Yhat might have been my best orgasm ever.”

That’s a sign I did something right. I adore men. Orgasms should be savored – enjoy the build up – enjoy the edge…then finally have a nice explosive (or a sweet wet) release. I must say that I didn’t come up with this all on my own, a dear friend of mine from Nevada is a retired Brothel Worker – and what I have the guys to is loosely based on how she would give them a mind blowing hand job (only translated into self pleasure!)

Why Men Love JOI


JOI is safe. You aren’t cheating on your partner, you won’t catch any diseases and no one will get pregnant! Most men need to cum/ejaculate at least every 3 days or so – JOI gives them a different (and fun most of the time) way to do it. Men, traditionally, have more high-stress jobs; they make decisions all day that are high stress – so same reason a man might come to see a Domme or FemDom are the same reasons he would come to me for JOI –to give up control/power, if only for a while. (Power exchange, no thinking needed…just do as he’s told.)


JOI Misconceptions


One of the main ones is the method of delivery – most people can’t figure out how or where to get good JOI. Fortunately, there are many ways – if you’re just looking for general JOI there are plenty of free porn sites with videos (with JOI) or web teases…even forums and erotica sites all with free jerk off instructions. However, if a fella wants something custom, specific to his fetishes or more interaction – there’s phone sex, custom video, custom audio and even sexting (not to mention cam sites or cam to cam).


Typical JOI Sessions


I tend to deliver JOI two ways (outside of in person Domme sessions of course). The first is phone sex (which is nice, because I can hear his breathing, stroking, moans etc) and the second being MP3’s (recorded instructions). Sometimes I put a simple roleplay with it (I’m the neighbor that caught you wanking, I’m your teacher, I’m whoever they need me to be…) but sometimes it’s just simple masturbation guidance.

I encourage them to get as naked as they are comfortable with. To get (and use) some good quality lube (something that won’t dry out or get sticky) Then, I guide them through how to stroke their cocks, the speed in which to do it…sometimes there’s edging, sometimes a countdown, sometimes denial and sometimes an amazing explosive orgasm. (All sort of depending on what the client is seeking.)



Mistress DJ – Mistress DJ is a Pro-Domme that got her start in 2001 in Nevada. After working doing real time sessions, she moved to the countryside. Though she still does real-time sessions on occasion – she mostly has translated her style of Domination to online. Considered a veteran by many, she’s quick to help other women in the adult industry and will repeat “she loves her life as a Domme.”

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I am continually creating new mp3’s (with JOI) and am available for custom recordings as well as live phone calls.

Wednesday, January 17, 2018

So whatcha want?? How to please your Domme...


Here is another one from the search terms list: “how to please your Dominant”.

Let us back up just a little bit. What happens in a Dominant/submissive relationship? One thing that happens, or should happen, is that the Dominant learns about the submissive. The Dominant should always be learning as much as possible about her submissive. Learn about him as a person, as a submissive, as a sexual being, as a spiritual being. Learn about him who he is, what he likes, how he thinks how he feels, everything about him that a Dominant can know. Reciprocally, the submissive should be learning all she can about his Dominant.
The submissive should learn the Dominant’s likes and dislikes. The submissive should ask when he does not know what those might be in a situation. He should study the Dominant to see when she is pleased and when she is displeased. I recommend submissives keep journals to help them keep track of what things please their Dominants. But that is not all.
Once you learn a thing pleases your Dominant, practice it. Get better at it. This will please your Dominant not just because you do it better, but because your taking time to become better at it for her will be pleasing.

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Sunday, November 20, 2016

Friday, July 29, 2016

Come spend some time with a Mature Milf


There are many things I'm into:
Foot and Shoe Worship
Cock Control
Roleplay
Chastity
Control
Confessions

When you're ready to share your dirty stories, ideas or fantasies...(and confess....)

I'm only a phone call away!

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Masturbation Class is in Session....back to school

I really enjoy doing the guided stroking -- whether it's on the telephone and interactive, a recording made for you or creating something for you to savor later...

The rules:

1. when you call you will have your cock in your hand ready to go.

2. you will have a scenario/idea in your head (I AM NOT A MINDREADER!)

3. you will wait for permission to start pleasuring yourself.

4. you will have enough minutes to complete the call.

5. you will ask permission to release...



besides, it's good for you!!!



Thursday, July 14, 2016

$1 Introduction to Hypnosis. Get addicted


Welcome. 
This is the beginning of your journey. 
 A journey into total mental slavery. 
 This is a video that will introduce you into the world of hypnosis. 
 You have ideas of obedience, or even ruin, on behalf of a beautiful Domme like me.
If you have never heard of me or have but are too afraid to purchase one of my videos here is an affordable option to see, hear and worship me. 
You will think of me every night before you sleep and think of me first thing when you awake. 
As you close your eyes to sleep my body and voice will be in your head, wrapped around your thoughts and feelings.
This video will create an addiction that will grow.
I will take you under hypnosis and you will feel my control This is real. Very real indeed. 
I have no problem at all to change your mind, to bend your reality to my needs, to addict you and exploit you. 
 You have been warned. But you want to continue anyway, don’t you? 

After this video I give you permission to tribute to show your gratitude for allowing you view this video at such a reduced price. 


$1 

Friday, June 24, 2016

Sissynosis

You want to become a woman. 
You need to submit, to dream, to embrace, to obey. 
You need to become female. 
Becoming female is fun. 
Obey the cock. 
Feminize yourself. 
You’re a sissy whore who needs to submit to feminization hypnosis. 
You know this. 
Just give in and start embracing your feminine side. 
Gender transformation is what you need in life. 

Watch this video and feel my control over your mind. 
Today is the day you have been waiting for. You're ready for this. 
Just submit. 

The new you will be better than the old you could ever be. Everything about you will be better. The way you look. The way you dress. Even the way you think. 
Now lets begin.


$14.99



Contains subliminal mindfuck techniques, recall, feminisation/sissification suggestions, flashing images and binaural beats.






Saturday, June 11, 2016

A few of my favourite ladies!

Niteflirt Flirts who I admire.
Make sure you follow them on twitter and favourite their listings on Niteflirt
Don't forget to check out their goody bags too!
If you aren't already a member then join using my affiliate link here: https://www.niteflirt.com/pid/25798424 
CROSS POSTED FROM: http://mistressxuk.blogspot.co.uk/2016/06/niteflirt-flirts-woments.html
MistressX
Twitter @M1stressx
Shayna Domina 
Twitter @ShaynaDomina

Goddess Natasha
Twitter @NatashaHertz
https://www.niteflirt.com/listings/show/9531839

Glitter Goddess
Twitter @1GlitterGoddess

Miss Victoria Reign

Mistress Madison
Twitter @MeanLadyMADISON

Ebony Goddess Amber
Twitter @EbonyGoddessA
https://www.niteflirt.com/EbonyGoddessAmber

Candace Suzanne

Jadah Cortez

Lady Bella Nova
Twitter @LadyBellaNova

GI Jane

Mistress Platinum Scarlette
Twitter @PlatScarlette
https://www.niteflirt.com/listings/show/10059873

Amy Paige
Twitter @Amypaigesexy

Mistress Bitchin
Twitter @MistressBitchIn
https://www.niteflirt.com/MistressBitchin

Goddess Nelani
Twitter @MzNelani

Domina Dante Posh
Twitter: @DominaDantePosh


Pippa Lily
Twitter @Pippa_Lily
https://www.niteflirt.com/pippalily

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