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Monday, June 6, 2016
Thursday, May 19, 2016
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Friday, February 19, 2016
the 60 minute masturbation game/challenge
For this challenge you must continually masturbate for 60 minutes - even if stroking slowly, the hand that is stroking yourself must always keep moving. You are only allowed to cum after that 60 minutes has expired.
Equipment - one clock that shows seconds, one object to insert up your anus (already lubed), one safe candle (lit the moment the game is started), a few glasses of cold water (each with an ice cube in to keep them cold) and a number of clothes pegs.
To start the game, you must masturbate with your dominant hand.
The first 5 minutes must be spent masturbating as quickly as possible. From then on you have control of the speed of masturbation and have the option of rolling the double dice whenever you want. However, rolling the dice is the only way to earn reprieves from masturbating which will allow you to hold off cumming until after the time limit.
Whilst you perform the instructions below, assume you must continue masturbating unless told otherwise.
3- swap the hand you're masturbating with.
4- Masturbate as fast as you can for 120 seconds.
5- Stop masturbating and use both hands to play with your nipples for 30 seconds. Then resume masturbating with the same hand.
6- take off an item of clothing. If you have nothing left to take off, masturbate for 30 seconds standing at a window with the curtains open.
7- give yourself 10 fast strokes.
8- play with your balls or nipples for 60 seconds with your non-masturbating hand (whichever turns you on more).
9- Take a 60 second break from masturbation.
10- Cover your masturbating hand with spit and then resume masturbation.
11- Moan loudly as you masturbate for the next 60 seconds.
If you roll doubles, then it's your unlucky day:
double 1- Add 15 minutes to the 60 minute time limit.
double 2- Insert the chosen object up your anus. Cannot remove until another double 2 is rolled.
double 3- Douse your penis with one glass of cold water. If you run out of glasses, then treat this as a double 4 instead.
double 4- Drip whatever candle wax has accumulated in the candle onto your left nipple. If double 4 is rolled a second time, drip it onto your right nipple. For each subsequent double 4 that is rolled, pour the wax onto your balls.
double 5- Attach 2 clothes pegs to your balls.
double 6- Subtract 15 minutes from the time limit.
If you manage to last the full amount of time before you came, congrats!
If you came before the full amount of time, you must eat whatever semen you produced and do this challenge every time you masturbate until you complete it.
If you came before the 30 minute mark, you must do the same as above but the semen produced must be snorted.
Best of luck.
A lovely challenge I found on getdare...enjoy!!
Saturday, January 16, 2016
Failed & ruined orgasm
Failed & ruined orgasm
This pathetic bitch boy is finally allowed a release after a days abuse and filming. The only problem is he can't cum! Pathic loser!! The two Mistresses laugh at how stupid he is. HE CAN'T EVEN MAKE HIMSELF CUM! How will he ever please a woman?
Friday, January 15, 2016
One of the most amazing masturbation techniques -- give it a try!
This is a start-stop technique that you can make go on for as long as you can stand it. Some are able to do this for hours going through waves and waves of orgasmic pleasure with no ejaculation so it can last for literally hours if you have the time.
Palming the Glans
Get a good hard erection with plenty of lube and stroke your penis in any way you wish, but stay away from the edge before ejaculation. Just get aroused and very hard — no more. When you’ve settled in, have control of your arousal and can stroke easily without coming close to the edge of ejaculation, concentrate on your muscles around your anus and the base of your penis and one-by-one relax them. Consciously let them go. Sometimes you have to squeeze them to identify them and then relax them. The important thing is to relax each and every muscle.
Now, lay back with your head on a pillow, slightly pull your knees up and spread your legs. Hold your erect penis shaft lightly with one hand and cup your other hand over the head of your penis, rotating your hand around so that the palm of your hand only contacts the head or glans of your penis. Don’t stroke any other part of your penis — only the glans with your palm.
You will feel a very intense sensation and the temptation will be to grab your penis and pump. Resist the temptation and relax those muscles. As long as you stroke this way, you are not likely to ejaculate. If anything, you might urinate without realizing it so keep some tissues or a towel handy. If you feel you’re coming really close to ejaculation, back off a bit on the stimulation and let the urge to ejaculate pass. Then continue.
The head or glans of your penis shrinks a bit when you stroke this way. After a couple minutes, the really intense sensation subsides and then it moves into other parts of your body. Keep going. Keep stroking and imagine the energy moving from your penis up into your stomach and into your shoulders and arms and head. Then down into your legs. Keep stroking. Relax those muscles. If you get close to ejaculation, slow or stop, get control and then start again. Only the head. Only the palm of your hand.
Your first time, you’ll probably only be able to do it for fifteen or twenty minutes. Later, you’ll be able to do it for an hour or even two. The orgasmic energy will move through your body and you’ll discover a sense of being you never knew was possible. You’ll feel light, healthy and free of stress.
You can end with ejaculation if you want, but you don’t have to. A lot depends on your age, recovery time after ejaculation and mostly on your state of mind. You might find that you feel full of energy and life if you don’t ejaculate. It’s up to you. Experiment and enjoy!
Palming the Glans
Get a good hard erection with plenty of lube and stroke your penis in any way you wish, but stay away from the edge before ejaculation. Just get aroused and very hard — no more. When you’ve settled in, have control of your arousal and can stroke easily without coming close to the edge of ejaculation, concentrate on your muscles around your anus and the base of your penis and one-by-one relax them. Consciously let them go. Sometimes you have to squeeze them to identify them and then relax them. The important thing is to relax each and every muscle.
Now, lay back with your head on a pillow, slightly pull your knees up and spread your legs. Hold your erect penis shaft lightly with one hand and cup your other hand over the head of your penis, rotating your hand around so that the palm of your hand only contacts the head or glans of your penis. Don’t stroke any other part of your penis — only the glans with your palm.
You will feel a very intense sensation and the temptation will be to grab your penis and pump. Resist the temptation and relax those muscles. As long as you stroke this way, you are not likely to ejaculate. If anything, you might urinate without realizing it so keep some tissues or a towel handy. If you feel you’re coming really close to ejaculation, back off a bit on the stimulation and let the urge to ejaculate pass. Then continue.
The head or glans of your penis shrinks a bit when you stroke this way. After a couple minutes, the really intense sensation subsides and then it moves into other parts of your body. Keep going. Keep stroking and imagine the energy moving from your penis up into your stomach and into your shoulders and arms and head. Then down into your legs. Keep stroking. Relax those muscles. If you get close to ejaculation, slow or stop, get control and then start again. Only the head. Only the palm of your hand.
Your first time, you’ll probably only be able to do it for fifteen or twenty minutes. Later, you’ll be able to do it for an hour or even two. The orgasmic energy will move through your body and you’ll discover a sense of being you never knew was possible. You’ll feel light, healthy and free of stress.
You can end with ejaculation if you want, but you don’t have to. A lot depends on your age, recovery time after ejaculation and mostly on your state of mind. You might find that you feel full of energy and life if you don’t ejaculate. It’s up to you. Experiment and enjoy!
Tuesday, December 22, 2015
Introducing sissy Nikki and 2 Domme homewrecking body worship
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Friday, August 14, 2015
A great find!
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Monday, August 10, 2015
What is a fetish? Do you have a fetish?
What Is a Sexual Fetish?
Sexual fetish describes people who are aroused by unusual parts of the body, activities, or objects that are generally not associated with conventional sex. The fetish is strong and is deep seated in the sub conscious mind. People can have sex without actually participating in the fetish activity. However, 99 per cent of people with a fetish are like Susan. They cannot have an orgasm unless they think about the fetish at the moment of explosion.
There are all kinds of sexual fetishes. Sexuality is something that is as unique as each individual. Some people fixate on parts of the body: shoes, feet, legs, bottoms, hair or armpits. Others enjoy acting out certain kinds of scenarios including Dominant/submissive role-playing, spanking, bondage, cross-dressing and trampling. Still others find certain articles of clothing or fabric stimulating such as leather, latex, rubber and even angora sweaters. The acts and scenarios attached to these fetishes are many and variable.
People With Fetishes Are Ashamed
It's no wonder. Our society labels anything sexually different as deviant or perverted. These labels hurt deeply to those whose sexual make-up is out of the norm. Fetishists feel weird, ashamed and guilty for their desires. While the fetish provides pleasure and relief, all these people have feelings of shame about being sexually different.
Fetishists are afraid of sharing their secret with a lover. They fear rejection, ridicule or abandonment. Unfortunately their fears are not unfounded. Oftentimes, people who disclose to their wives or husbands wish they hadn't. Their partners react with shock or embarrassment promoting even more feels of shame and regret.
The general public is uneducated about sexuality out of the norm. Most people (even in this day and age) resort to perfunctory sex. We are not schooled in the joys of playing and acting out fantasies. Fetishes often require special costuming, effects, verbiage and creativity. We are not trained to indulge in sexual desires. We just don't understand.
People with a fetish generally think they are the only one. It's a secret that they carry to the grave or possibly a paid professional (prostitute or Dominatrix). Sexual fetish is a misunderstood confusing topic. Why can't my partner or I just enjoy and experience sex in the moment? Is it abnormal to have strong sexual feelings or thoughts, which I can't control? Is there a 'cure' for fetish? Is it OK to act on the fetish?
Where Does The Fetish Come From?
There's no definitive answer as to why someone is or isn't precluded to having a fetish. Most remember having some kind of early childhood memory connected to the fetish.
Fear, excitement, curiosity, pleasure are powerful emotions that are felt in the body. The body remembers the charge physiologically and for some of us those moments become eroticized on a subconscious level. Even scary childhood moments. We protected ourselves by sexualizing the powerful feelings. Generally the feelings lay dormant until we become sexually active. Then out of nowhere, we connect our original moment of excitement and experience to a powerful erotic charge. This feeling is so strong that our sexuality is linked to that early sexual/excitement/fear moment.
For example, someone who likes spanking might have heard someone else get a spanked or they were spanked themselves. While the event wasn't necessarily enjoyable at the time, it made great impact. It was charged moment that later became sexualized. How does that happen? Spanking is done behind closed doors, undergarments are taken down and there is a certain degree of intimacy about the act. Hence, powerful emotions are evoked.
These powerful emotions linked to the fetish are stored in the subconscious mind. They are connected to a part of our brain that produces sexual stimulation. When puberty strikes these thoughts and feelings may re-emerge. Before we realize what's happening we are associating our childhood fear/excitement to adult sexual feelings.
Do You Have A Sexual Fetish?
Chances are good that if you were attracted to this article you have a sexual fetish or a penchant for sexuality out of the norm. You may or may not have told anyone or acted upon it. Perhaps you have see professional women who specialize in exotic forms of adult entertainment. The visits to these adult workers are satisfying in the moment but ultimately leave you feeling alone and ashamed.
You may have shared your secret desire with your significant other only to be shunned and rejected. People who have sexual fetishes are often left feeling very alone. It's just not something we feel comfortable bringing up with a friend over lunch. It's even hard to tell a therapist we've seen for ages.
Taken from here: http://www.therapywithcare.com/Article_Fetish.html
Do you have a fetish you'd like to explore?
Sexual fetish describes people who are aroused by unusual parts of the body, activities, or objects that are generally not associated with conventional sex. The fetish is strong and is deep seated in the sub conscious mind. People can have sex without actually participating in the fetish activity. However, 99 per cent of people with a fetish are like Susan. They cannot have an orgasm unless they think about the fetish at the moment of explosion.
There are all kinds of sexual fetishes. Sexuality is something that is as unique as each individual. Some people fixate on parts of the body: shoes, feet, legs, bottoms, hair or armpits. Others enjoy acting out certain kinds of scenarios including Dominant/submissive role-playing, spanking, bondage, cross-dressing and trampling. Still others find certain articles of clothing or fabric stimulating such as leather, latex, rubber and even angora sweaters. The acts and scenarios attached to these fetishes are many and variable.
People With Fetishes Are Ashamed
It's no wonder. Our society labels anything sexually different as deviant or perverted. These labels hurt deeply to those whose sexual make-up is out of the norm. Fetishists feel weird, ashamed and guilty for their desires. While the fetish provides pleasure and relief, all these people have feelings of shame about being sexually different.
Fetishists are afraid of sharing their secret with a lover. They fear rejection, ridicule or abandonment. Unfortunately their fears are not unfounded. Oftentimes, people who disclose to their wives or husbands wish they hadn't. Their partners react with shock or embarrassment promoting even more feels of shame and regret.
The general public is uneducated about sexuality out of the norm. Most people (even in this day and age) resort to perfunctory sex. We are not schooled in the joys of playing and acting out fantasies. Fetishes often require special costuming, effects, verbiage and creativity. We are not trained to indulge in sexual desires. We just don't understand.
People with a fetish generally think they are the only one. It's a secret that they carry to the grave or possibly a paid professional (prostitute or Dominatrix). Sexual fetish is a misunderstood confusing topic. Why can't my partner or I just enjoy and experience sex in the moment? Is it abnormal to have strong sexual feelings or thoughts, which I can't control? Is there a 'cure' for fetish? Is it OK to act on the fetish?
Where Does The Fetish Come From?
There's no definitive answer as to why someone is or isn't precluded to having a fetish. Most remember having some kind of early childhood memory connected to the fetish.
Fear, excitement, curiosity, pleasure are powerful emotions that are felt in the body. The body remembers the charge physiologically and for some of us those moments become eroticized on a subconscious level. Even scary childhood moments. We protected ourselves by sexualizing the powerful feelings. Generally the feelings lay dormant until we become sexually active. Then out of nowhere, we connect our original moment of excitement and experience to a powerful erotic charge. This feeling is so strong that our sexuality is linked to that early sexual/excitement/fear moment.
For example, someone who likes spanking might have heard someone else get a spanked or they were spanked themselves. While the event wasn't necessarily enjoyable at the time, it made great impact. It was charged moment that later became sexualized. How does that happen? Spanking is done behind closed doors, undergarments are taken down and there is a certain degree of intimacy about the act. Hence, powerful emotions are evoked.
These powerful emotions linked to the fetish are stored in the subconscious mind. They are connected to a part of our brain that produces sexual stimulation. When puberty strikes these thoughts and feelings may re-emerge. Before we realize what's happening we are associating our childhood fear/excitement to adult sexual feelings.
Do You Have A Sexual Fetish?
Chances are good that if you were attracted to this article you have a sexual fetish or a penchant for sexuality out of the norm. You may or may not have told anyone or acted upon it. Perhaps you have see professional women who specialize in exotic forms of adult entertainment. The visits to these adult workers are satisfying in the moment but ultimately leave you feeling alone and ashamed.
You may have shared your secret desire with your significant other only to be shunned and rejected. People who have sexual fetishes are often left feeling very alone. It's just not something we feel comfortable bringing up with a friend over lunch. It's even hard to tell a therapist we've seen for ages.
Taken from here: http://www.therapywithcare.com/Article_Fetish.html
Do you have a fetish you'd like to explore?
Sunday, July 5, 2015
Did you know that there was Kink B&B's ?? Kincation!
http://kinky.com/plan-your-kinkcation-today/
I found it interesting that you can go, stay at a quality bed and breakfast: kink included. Whether you're a "beginner" or for the newlyweds that are a bit kinky...or a getaway...whatever...
I for one was gobsmacked...
and...I'll be staying here: http://www.eroticroomandboard.com/
More pics here: http://www.eroticroomandboard.com/image/68543742.jpg
So, next vacation, if you can't make it to MY dungeon...or a dungeon in general...think about a kinky b&b!
I for one was gobsmacked...
and...I'll be staying here: http://www.eroticroomandboard.com/
More pics here: http://www.eroticroomandboard.com/image/68543742.jpg
So, next vacation, if you can't make it to MY dungeon...or a dungeon in general...think about a kinky b&b!
Thursday, May 21, 2015
Munches, what are they? BDSM 101
Here's a great resource for finding munches in your area:
http://bdsm-101.com/Munches.html
A munch (derived from "burger munch") is a casual social gathering for people involved in or interested in BDSM. Munches often take place at a restaurant, bar, or coffee shop; the organizer usually reserving a large table, a back area, or a private room. People are free to arrive and leave within the specified hours. The primary purpose is socializing, although some munches also have announcements or demonstrations from local organizations or individuals. Munches are meant to help those who are curious about BDSM meet others, become more comfortable, and better informed. Munches can also be a place to get advice, or pass on anecdotes about BDSM experiences.
More recently, munches dedicated to people into polyamory have sprung up around the U.S. They function much the same as BDSM munches, with perhaps more focus on talking about poly relationships. Some come with food, and there are now some "Liquid Munches" that are held, usually early enough for conversation to be possible, in bars.
Unlike a play party, most munches are informal affairs that discourage fetish attire or BDSM play.[citation needed] However some munches may be held as a get-together prior to a more formal play party, or other groups may be open to the wearing of collars or pride emblems; as such, covert Master/slave interactions, fetish dress, or other BDSM play maybe observed.
Munches have changed with time and with increasing social acceptability of BDSM and fetish lifestyles. Many have expanded to include more people, topics and philosophies.[citation needed] Some munches may have a specific focus, such as spirituality, or whips. Others may be restricted to a specific group; such as women, or submissives. Munches can be very specific to their region, city, or neighbourhood, and regional groups will often host member's only meetings. Each munch is different and reflects the personality of the group that attends it.
Many munch organizers post their event information on social networking sites, some may use e-mail or mailing lists. Local BDSM groups may announce a munch in-person at a meeting, on a community calendar or newsletter, or on their own websites.
*taken from Wikipedia*
Likeminded individuals--you'd be surprised.
In the meantime, I've got a RT to Virtual experience on NF that would be of interest to newcomers to the lifestyle. This isn't a game, this isn't "for shits and giggles" it's a LIFESTYLE.
http://bdsm-101.com/Munches.html
A munch (derived from "burger munch") is a casual social gathering for people involved in or interested in BDSM. Munches often take place at a restaurant, bar, or coffee shop; the organizer usually reserving a large table, a back area, or a private room. People are free to arrive and leave within the specified hours. The primary purpose is socializing, although some munches also have announcements or demonstrations from local organizations or individuals. Munches are meant to help those who are curious about BDSM meet others, become more comfortable, and better informed. Munches can also be a place to get advice, or pass on anecdotes about BDSM experiences.
More recently, munches dedicated to people into polyamory have sprung up around the U.S. They function much the same as BDSM munches, with perhaps more focus on talking about poly relationships. Some come with food, and there are now some "Liquid Munches" that are held, usually early enough for conversation to be possible, in bars.
Unlike a play party, most munches are informal affairs that discourage fetish attire or BDSM play.[citation needed] However some munches may be held as a get-together prior to a more formal play party, or other groups may be open to the wearing of collars or pride emblems; as such, covert Master/slave interactions, fetish dress, or other BDSM play maybe observed.
Munches have changed with time and with increasing social acceptability of BDSM and fetish lifestyles. Many have expanded to include more people, topics and philosophies.[citation needed] Some munches may have a specific focus, such as spirituality, or whips. Others may be restricted to a specific group; such as women, or submissives. Munches can be very specific to their region, city, or neighbourhood, and regional groups will often host member's only meetings. Each munch is different and reflects the personality of the group that attends it.
Many munch organizers post their event information on social networking sites, some may use e-mail or mailing lists. Local BDSM groups may announce a munch in-person at a meeting, on a community calendar or newsletter, or on their own websites.
*taken from Wikipedia*
Likeminded individuals--you'd be surprised.
Monday, May 18, 2015
Great links for Niteflirt fans, flirts and well...the galaxy!
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Sunday, November 23, 2014
Bizarre Fetishes -- the more you know and NO JUDGEMENT
10 Of The Most Bizarre Fetishes
From here: http://www.blokebuddy.com/2010/humour/10-of-the-most-bizarre-fetishes/
”I think most of us men are guilty of experimenting with some sort of fetish, indulging in a bit of roleplay? maybe being tied up and spanked? or perhaps partaking in a bit of necrophilia? (hopefully not) but if you dig deep enough the Internet can reveal some of the most bizarre and genuine fetishes that people actually enjoy. Here is a list of 10 fetishes that are weirder than your grandad wearing Reebok’s.
1. Symphorophilia Kicking off the list is the fetish called Symphorophilia which means that a person gets sexually aroused by natural disasters, so if your wondering why you felt the urge to reach for the Kleenex when the Haiti earthquake came on the news, This is why.
2. Klismaphilia This fetish means a person gets sexual gratification through receiving an enema, I fail to see the attraction myself but just be wary if your mate is overly enthusiastic about having one.
3. Hemotigolagnia A Hemotigolagniac is someone who gets turned on by ’sanitary pads’ Either used or not, watch out for the dude ramming allways ultra into a shopping trolley whilst dribbling.
4. Harpaxophilia A Harpaxophiliac gets heavily aroused at the thought of being burgled, this makes me wonder what is wrong with the human race, someone getting their rocks whilst having there Xbox nicked is ludicrous, and I can imagine quite unpleasant for the burglar too!
5. Nasolingus Picking my your nose and flicking it is a pretty fun past time for many men, but do this around someone with Nasolingus (someone who is aroused by bogeys) you could find yourself in an uncomfortable situation.
6. Parthenophagy This one is a bit dark, a person with this fetish gets turned on by the thought of eating (not eating out) young girls or virgins, so any virgins should get laid now in case you end up in a stew.
7. Tripsolagnia A person with this fetish gets sexual pleasure from having there hair shampooed, step away from the Timotei!
8. Avisodomy Someone who gets sexual gratification from having sex with birds, no wonder Bill Oddie is always smiling, dirty bastard.
9. Catheterophilia I have no idea why but a person with this fetish gets turned on by ‘catheters’ what they actually do with a catheter to get sexual pleasure from it is a mystery.
10. Nosolagnia This is weird, a person that has this fetish gets ‘happy’ knowing there partner has a terminal illness….what is wrong with people, a box of tissues and the underwear section of a Kay’s catalogue is just not enough for some people!
Got a fetish? an idea of a roleplay?
No judgement--
From here: http://www.blokebuddy.com/2010/humour/10-of-the-most-bizarre-fetishes/
”I think most of us men are guilty of experimenting with some sort of fetish, indulging in a bit of roleplay? maybe being tied up and spanked? or perhaps partaking in a bit of necrophilia? (hopefully not) but if you dig deep enough the Internet can reveal some of the most bizarre and genuine fetishes that people actually enjoy. Here is a list of 10 fetishes that are weirder than your grandad wearing Reebok’s.
1. Symphorophilia Kicking off the list is the fetish called Symphorophilia which means that a person gets sexually aroused by natural disasters, so if your wondering why you felt the urge to reach for the Kleenex when the Haiti earthquake came on the news, This is why.
2. Klismaphilia This fetish means a person gets sexual gratification through receiving an enema, I fail to see the attraction myself but just be wary if your mate is overly enthusiastic about having one.
3. Hemotigolagnia A Hemotigolagniac is someone who gets turned on by ’sanitary pads’ Either used or not, watch out for the dude ramming allways ultra into a shopping trolley whilst dribbling.
4. Harpaxophilia A Harpaxophiliac gets heavily aroused at the thought of being burgled, this makes me wonder what is wrong with the human race, someone getting their rocks whilst having there Xbox nicked is ludicrous, and I can imagine quite unpleasant for the burglar too!
5. Nasolingus Picking my your nose and flicking it is a pretty fun past time for many men, but do this around someone with Nasolingus (someone who is aroused by bogeys) you could find yourself in an uncomfortable situation.
6. Parthenophagy This one is a bit dark, a person with this fetish gets turned on by the thought of eating (not eating out) young girls or virgins, so any virgins should get laid now in case you end up in a stew.
7. Tripsolagnia A person with this fetish gets sexual pleasure from having there hair shampooed, step away from the Timotei!
8. Avisodomy Someone who gets sexual gratification from having sex with birds, no wonder Bill Oddie is always smiling, dirty bastard.
9. Catheterophilia I have no idea why but a person with this fetish gets turned on by ‘catheters’ what they actually do with a catheter to get sexual pleasure from it is a mystery.
10. Nosolagnia This is weird, a person that has this fetish gets ‘happy’ knowing there partner has a terminal illness….what is wrong with people, a box of tissues and the underwear section of a Kay’s catalogue is just not enough for some people!
Got a fetish? an idea of a roleplay?
No judgement--
Monday, September 22, 2014
some basic definitions...
bdsm scene
BDSM is a variety of erotic practices involving dominance and submission, role-playing, restraint, and other interpersonal dynamics.
Mistress - a title for a female Dominant - "Mistress" is very commonly the title used for a professional Dominatrix, although not exclusively. Some lifestyle Dominant women might choose the title Mistress. There is, for some women, a negative connotation with this title - especially those of us who are a little older. In earlier times, in the vanilla world, "Mistress" was the name given to the illicit lover of a married man.
BDSM - Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission, Sadism & Masochism. A term which came into use in the 1990's, thanks to the internet.
SSC - Safe, Sane and Consensual
RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink
Subspace - a feeling of euphoria, similar to a morphine high, experienced by bottoms during an intense BDSM scene
Topspace - a feeling of being in "the zone" when in control of a BDSM scene - the Top may become oblivious to surroundings
Subdrop - an emotional state resulting from the disappearance of the exhilaration of Subspace - can be up to 3 days later
Topdrop - an emotional state resulting from the let down after an intense scene
Aftercare - the administration of nurturing care and emotional support to each other after a BDSM scene
BDSM is a variety of erotic practices involving dominance and submission, role-playing, restraint, and other interpersonal dynamics.
Mistress - a title for a female Dominant - "Mistress" is very commonly the title used for a professional Dominatrix, although not exclusively. Some lifestyle Dominant women might choose the title Mistress. There is, for some women, a negative connotation with this title - especially those of us who are a little older. In earlier times, in the vanilla world, "Mistress" was the name given to the illicit lover of a married man.
BDSM - Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission, Sadism & Masochism. A term which came into use in the 1990's, thanks to the internet.
SSC - Safe, Sane and Consensual
RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink
Subspace - a feeling of euphoria, similar to a morphine high, experienced by bottoms during an intense BDSM scene
Topspace - a feeling of being in "the zone" when in control of a BDSM scene - the Top may become oblivious to surroundings
Subdrop - an emotional state resulting from the disappearance of the exhilaration of Subspace - can be up to 3 days later
Topdrop - an emotional state resulting from the let down after an intense scene
Aftercare - the administration of nurturing care and emotional support to each other after a BDSM scene
Monday, May 26, 2014
Keep Calm and Masturbate!
Before Masturbation month comes to a close:
(THE CHALLENGE)
Here are 5 reasons to take matters into your own hands right now. (You’re welcome.)
It prevents cancer.
A 2003 Australian study found that men who ejaculated more than five times a week were a third less likely to develop prostate cancer. Disease-causing toxins build up in your urogenital tract and when you rub one out, you flush the bad guys out of your system, says Brame.
It makes you harder.
As you age, you naturally lose muscle tone … even down there. Regular sex or masturbation works out your pelvic floor muscles to prevent erectile dysfunction and incontinence. “It keeps the angle of your dangle perky,” says Brame. Aim to (ahem) arrive 3 to 5 times a week for rock-solid results.
It helps you last longer.
Taking yourself to palm prom may help you stretch your sack sessions. “[Masturbating] an hour before a date will give you more control,” says Brame. Train yourself by timing how long it takes you to orgasm, suggests Ava Cadell, Ph.D., founder of loveologyuniversity.com. If it usually takes two minutes solo, try for three next time. Or count how many strokes you need to get to your happy place. If you’re spurting after 50, shoot for 60. “Most men can double the number of strokes and the time within one month,” Cadell says. Practice makes perfect, right?
It ups your immunity.
Ejaculation increases levels of the hormone cortisol, says Jennifer Landa, M.D., a specialist in hormone therapy. Cortisol, which usually gets a bad rap as a havoc-wrecking stress hormone, actually helps regulate and maintain your immunity in the small doses. “Masturbation can product the right environment for a strengthened immune system,” she says.
It boosts your mood.
Masturbating releases a slew of feel-good neurochemicals like dopamine and oxytocin that lift your spirits, boost your satisfaction, and activate the reward circuits in your brain. “An orgasm is the biggest non-drug blast of dopamine available,” says Brame. “A brain scan of someone having an orgasm looks like a heroin addict’s."
(THE CHALLENGE)
Here are 5 reasons to take matters into your own hands right now. (You’re welcome.)
It prevents cancer.
A 2003 Australian study found that men who ejaculated more than five times a week were a third less likely to develop prostate cancer. Disease-causing toxins build up in your urogenital tract and when you rub one out, you flush the bad guys out of your system, says Brame.
It makes you harder.
As you age, you naturally lose muscle tone … even down there. Regular sex or masturbation works out your pelvic floor muscles to prevent erectile dysfunction and incontinence. “It keeps the angle of your dangle perky,” says Brame. Aim to (ahem) arrive 3 to 5 times a week for rock-solid results.
It helps you last longer.
Taking yourself to palm prom may help you stretch your sack sessions. “[Masturbating] an hour before a date will give you more control,” says Brame. Train yourself by timing how long it takes you to orgasm, suggests Ava Cadell, Ph.D., founder of loveologyuniversity.com. If it usually takes two minutes solo, try for three next time. Or count how many strokes you need to get to your happy place. If you’re spurting after 50, shoot for 60. “Most men can double the number of strokes and the time within one month,” Cadell says. Practice makes perfect, right?
It ups your immunity.
Ejaculation increases levels of the hormone cortisol, says Jennifer Landa, M.D., a specialist in hormone therapy. Cortisol, which usually gets a bad rap as a havoc-wrecking stress hormone, actually helps regulate and maintain your immunity in the small doses. “Masturbation can product the right environment for a strengthened immune system,” she says.
It boosts your mood.
Masturbating releases a slew of feel-good neurochemicals like dopamine and oxytocin that lift your spirits, boost your satisfaction, and activate the reward circuits in your brain. “An orgasm is the biggest non-drug blast of dopamine available,” says Brame. “A brain scan of someone having an orgasm looks like a heroin addict’s."
Friday, April 25, 2014
Want to go flying with me? I'll take you there...to subspace.
Subspace:
Subspace happens in two different situations. There is the first scenario where a submissive physiologically is sent to subspace via impact play. Instead of safe wording, the submissive disconnects, the stress on the body too much and the hormones kick in. This means that the submissive steps out of his or her body and shuts out the experience as his or body fights the hurt with hormones and endorphins kicking in.
The other scenario, the psychological is the good stuff. This is where you enter an altered state; one where you disconnect, only in a pleasant way. There is a strong draw to your Dominant. Not necessarily one of sexual arousal, though that may be a part. The first stage is tingly, floaty...warm...
Often at this point the submissives start to goad/provoke a Dominant or say things that others may laugh at during the scene without realizing that they are doing so. It is very cute and is most often accompanied by giggles and snorts of derision.
The next level goes deeper, where the ditzy feelings begin. Forgetting commands, looking spacey, intoxicated feelings; speaking slows if not stops and the submissive is reliant on the Dominant to monitor them.
The final section is primal. Moaning, grunting, multiple orgasms (sometimes without touching), hypersensitivity to tactile and other forms of sensory input.... and being completely out of it.
But then...the body drops from the high...and aftercare from your Dominant begins.
Subspace is a warm and fuzzy place if you are safe with your dominant. You will find that once you experience it, the longing to experience it again will be something you will have to control.
Let's go...I'm booking flights :)
DJ
Tuesday, March 19, 2013
Today I don't feel like doing anything...
If you're feelin' the same way, let's hang out...shop...chill...or conversate on whatever topic comes up. For example...Anonymous...the internet? V for Vendetta ties? Yep, this girl's onboard...
Remember, remember!
The fifth of November,
The Gunpowder treason and plot;
I know of no reason
Why the Gunpowder treason
Should ever be forgot!
Guy Fawkes and his companions
Did the scheme contrive,
To blow the King and Parliament
All up alive.
Threescore barrels, laid below,
To prove old England's overthrow.
But, by God's providence, him they catch,
With a dark lantern, lighting a match!
A stick and a stake
For King James's sake!
If you won't give me one,
I'll take two,
The better for me,
And the worse for you.
A rope, a rope, to hang the Pope,
A penn'orth of cheese to choke him,
A pint of beer to wash it down,
And a jolly good fire to burn him.
Holloa, boys! holloa, boys! make the bells ring!
Holloa, boys! holloa boys! God save the King!
Hip, hip, hooor-r-r-ray!
Yeah, ok it was overused because of V...but there is something to be said for the piece
Wednesday, January 23, 2013
A challenge to us all....
Flirts and anyone who reads this.
A challenge...
to pay it forward...
to give help/assistance where you can...
to share if you have an abundance....
I was blessed enough to be allowed to help a beautiful woman that's in the industry...Therefore, I'm issuing the challenge for all who read this to "Pay it forward today" and do something for another....
Let it shine!
Thursday, December 27, 2012
Ok, who are we kidding? I am a nerd. If you enjoy talking to me, you are likely a nerd too. There's nothing wrong with that, in fact the way I see it...the brain is the largest sex organ.
It occurred to me over the past few days...after playing with a full time, real time...in it for a couple decades player...and we acquired some FANTASTIC photos...
rather than captioning them with something of a sexual nature...we referenced Capn Kirk (old school Trek ftw!) Obi Wan (fucking rebel scum!) and Anakin (awwww yeah! <3) but I digress...
If you are looking for something different, you've found it. If a conversation sparks and kindles your drive...I'm here.
Come to the Dark Side!
DJ
A fun little game, ala burlesque:
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