So you're interested in FinDom?

Let’s start simply: What is findom? Financial Domination. There are some guys out there who want women to use them for money, or they recognize that in one way or another they pay for "it." This is something that elicits certain sexual responses from the men. As someone succintly put it, “It’s BDSM for millionaires.” Of course the one percent would weaponize and sexualize money. However, not all finsubs are rich, it's more like "If he has 500 in his wallet, giving 20 means little, but if he has 40 in his wallet, giving 20 is a big give."

In a findom (often stylized as FinDom) relationship, the male gives a woman money. In return the woman hurls insults at the man. Most of the time this is done online, and often without the couple seeing one another. When they do see one another it is on webcam.

Want a findom relationship? If you’re a man (or woman) with money and want to be insulted, half the battle is done. The next step is choosing a partner you’re willing to give money to in return for their insults. Seems pretty simple doesn’t it?

For the Dom/Domme, it is not quite as easy. While there have been a lot of people who have tried to be doms, most have failed. Our mystery man reveals, “there is a stark difference between a financial dominatrix and a mean girl demanding money.” A financial dom needs to know what buttons to push and when to back off. It’s a give and take, alas some of the newbies who have tried this lifestyle have only wanted to take.

For doms the allure of a findom relationship is quite obvious. Yet, many of them quit after just a few days because they aren’t making money like they thought. In deed rather than being a get rich quick scheme, these relationships are serious business. For those that are serious and committed they can make a living doing this.

The sub gets something else altogher. A gentleman interviewed said he entered into the relationship because of the danger. He said, “I got into the relationship knowing I could be risking everything. My wife had no idea, my partner had all of my banking information and would punish me by cutting off debit cards if misbehaved.” He went on to reveal his wife found out about his other relationship. “When she discovered what I was up to, thank to her checking my internet browsing history, she divorced me. I lost everything. It was a thrill and my partner didn’t stop talking to me and we ended up dating in real life, it’s why I moved to the City.”

Whenever you are ready to experience FinDom with an experienced FemDom, give in and give me a call! Yes, my line is called the Loser Line, interpret that how you will! I'm Meija (pronounced mee-jah) or Mistress Meija to you.

Need a rinsing?? Ready to give in and give it all to me??

Yes, I am the self-proclaimed "Loser Line".

You boys are so funny -- you declare yourselves losers -- you get off on giving your money to me!

Of course who would I be to complain?? You should give it all to me, in fact you should see about getting a second job so you can give me more!!!

Here's the loser loss line:

Want a custom MP3??

Loser Line laughs at you.

Financial domination (also known as money slavery) is a fetish lifestyle, in particular a practice of D/s, where usually a male submissive or money slave, pay pig, human ATM, or cash piggie will give gifts and money to a financial female (or male) dominant (also known as money mistress, findomme, money domme, "cash master", "findom").

The relation may often be accompanied by other practices of BDSM and female domination or male domination, like erotic humiliation, but there may be virtually no further intimacy between the individuals. The relationship between the 'slave' and the 'mistress'(or 'master') may take place solely via online communication, but it is not uncommon that the 'slave' may accompany his mistress while she (or he) is shopping and paying with his (or her) money.

Such a relationship between individuals may be similar to, yet clearly distinguishable from, relationships based on Total Power Exchange. In the latter one, the submissive may grant all his or her money saved and earned to the dominant, in addition with much more aspects of his or her autonomy, but it is not uncommon that both partners have an intimate relationship as well. The fetish of financial domination fetish should also be distinguished by Sugar daddy/Sugar babe-like relations between individuals, where the male may spend gifts and money to 'his' girl, without explicit elements of female domination.

Financial domination is a paraphilia stemming from a devotion of financial slavery or to be dominated in a financial way. Many[who?] pro-dommes and femdommes found this to be a natural extension for any professional dominatrix who is already being paid for fetish services, and began to exploit it with clients who shared her fetish. Some domme clients were aroused as much by giving money to a dominant woman, as they were by any fetishes they may have been coming to see her for. The dominatrix may also be aroused from being financially worshiped.

Where did the design for the Loser Line come from?

I've been asked this question many times..."why the loser line?" The question seems to answer itself with a certain clientele.

Sure, I have some that like to be "spoilers" (gift givers, tributes etc), I have some that like financial Domination/Ruination, I have SOME that like to be made fun of, tease and denial, ruined orgasms etc.

One sound of my wicked laugh and callers get hooked!

Are the "good" kind of loser?

Cum find out!