Showing posts with label fetish. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fetish. Show all posts

Thursday, July 15, 2021

Racial (Asian) Fetishization

Asian women are often forced into a caricature as either docile or sexually alluring, dutiful or domineering, the “wilting flower” or the “dragon lady,” caught between two contradictory labels imposed by men’s sexual fantasies and normalized through portrayals in film, television, plays and public policy. In the case of the Atlanta shooting on March 16, where six of the eight victims were Asian women, they were murdered because of these stereotypes. The shooter denied that he committed a hate crime and said that he was motivated by his “sex addiction,” but that excuse is rooted in the historic racist and sexist stereotypes imposed on Asian women.

In a society with a growing awareness of racial issues, the fetishization of Asian women is still normalized. From a study analyzing users’ demographic data and activity on the Facebook dating app “Are You Interested,” researchers found that men of all races, with the exception of Asian men, preferred Asian women. Although having a dating preference seems harmless, claiming to be attracted most to a specific race — especially a group as diverse as Asian women — is problematic because that attraction is likely based on harmful stereotypes about that race. 

You’re doing a disservice to both yourself and others when you refuse to see people past these preconceived labels. Being seen like a sexual object when I haven’t done anything to be seen like that is generally upsetting.

You’re doing a disservice to both yourself and others when you refuse to see people past these preconceived labels. Being seen like a sexual object when I haven’t done anything to be seen like that would be upsetting.

I bring this up as on Niteflirt, I am expected to either be docile or Dragon Lady. I am neither and both! I am naturally Dominant as my mom is Hawaiian and naturally dominant. No, I don't speak Korean and no, I don't have an accent. I am 3rd generation Korean and I was born and raised in San Francisco, now residing in Seattle.

Look, I get it, my looks are unique. When you are ready to delve deeper than what's on the surface, give me a call. (Be prepared to submit to a woman that likes to be in control)

Find me on Niteflirt here.



Friday, August 10, 2018

My Hot wild sexy Summer

Summer 2018 is almost over in a few weeks and I had so much kinky fun. I traveled back home to Cali, went to NY twice, partied in Miami, Atlanta, and Vegas. I relaxed on beaches in string bikinis sipping hard liquor with strangers. Vegas is always my favorite. The best clubs, bars and strip clubs. I went to a swingers event at a secret location in Vegas. It was actually an interracial kinky party. The theme was cuckolding and BBC worship. They even had a cake made like a huge Black Cock. There was cuckolding Porn played on several plasma TV's. Some people came in costumes and lingerie. I wore a black and pink lingerie set with lacy leggings and black heels with a short pink wig. My friend work black cute up body suit with heels. My friend is such a kinky cum freak. She fucked 5 white guys and gave blowjobs. I just watched and drunk some wine and smoke some pre-rolls that I brought with me. I also ran into an ex at a casino in Vegas. I went back to his room to do a threesome with him and his new wife. I don't know how he was able to talk her into eating my pussy, but she did it like she owned my pussy. What a summer.
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Friday, January 12, 2018

Be happy in your own skin! (New Year Challenge!)

DJ's Challenge for the new year:



Be happy in your own skin!

1. Get real.

Do the work to get clear about who you are—not just who you routinely consider yourself to be, the person you habitually show the world—but who you are in the deepest recesses of your authentic heart and soul.
The word “authenticity” is misunderstood sometimes. People think of it as a virtue, like honesty . . . like you owe the world your authenticity and you should feel bad if you’re not authentic. That’s not the case. I’m not suggesting you should become more authentic because it will make you a better person—you already are a phenomenal person. I’m telling you that becoming more authentic is your golden ticket—to joy, to success, to vibrant health and energy, to easily manifesting the life of your dreams. It’s every bit that transformative. You’re not doing this to better serve the world; you’re doing it to better serve you. But—happy bonus!—it happens to be the best way to serve your loved ones and the world as well.

2. Adore YOU.

If you’ve been on a personal development path for a while, I’m probably not the first to suggest that you need to love yourself. But I’m surprised to discover how often my students don’t really seem to know why I’m so insistent on that point. Are you tired of hearing about how you need to love yourself more? Does the thought of it feel kind of like of a burden—one more thing to check off your To-Do list? Does the whole concept feel a bit worn-out and cliché? Maybe you just need to understand what’s in it for you. Self-love is the fastest route to literally anything you want right now. Money, love, health, romance . . . it all hinges on your level of self-love. The circumstances of your life are always providing you a crystal-clear, precisely accurate measure of how much you love yourself and what you believe you deserve. All you can ever create is what you believe you’re worthy of experiencing. It’s an immutable energetic law. That’s why elevating self-love is the not-so-secret path to elevating everything else.

3. Trust your wants.

Stop trying to justify and rationalize your most heartfelt desires. Your desires are the clearest indicator of who you are. Denying them is denying you. No one needs to understand why you want what you want. You don’t even need to understand it yourself. Just trust it, and trust yourself to manifest it. The reason you don’t already have everything you want is crazy-simple. You don’t love yourself enough yet to deeply believe that you deserve everything you want. My students argue that sometimes, but they always discover it’s true. You might even believe, on a conscious level, that you do deserve a certain thing, but I promise you that if you were fully, wholly believing you deserved it—even in the cobwebby corners of your unconscious belief system—it would already be in your life.

4. Stop trying to vanquish the “bad stuff.”

And stop whining about it, too. Celebrate our unwanted circumstances because there’s so much valuable information for us in them. Get clear on why your unwanted circumstances are here and why you created them. Then use them as a springboard. Once you can start genuinely thanking “the bad stuff”, it’s pretty easy to move past it.

5. Take responsibility.

Own every last drop of everything you’ve ever created. We’re so conditioned to blame our unwanted circumstances on other people, or on the “system” or the world . . . What if it’s really all within your control? Taking full responsibility for the life you’ve created for yourself and the life you’re in the process of creating is hugely empowering. But it requires first getting uber-honest to a degree that’s terrifying for most people. Don’t be “most people.” Understanding that you alone are holding the reins on your life is the first critical step toward learning how to operate them.

6. Stop tolerating.

Tolerating is slow emotional suicide. It sucks the life out of you, drains your energy, numbs you, depletes you, and keeps you immobilized. There’s no reason for you to ever tolerate anything. We sometimes confuse tolerating with accepting—we all know it’s good to accept the things we can’t change, right? If we make very clear distinctions between what can be changed and what can’t, then it’s astounding the kinds of life-altering adjustments people are able to easily, joyfully make when they understand the underlying reasons they’ve been tolerating things.

7. Get out of the spin cycle.

Where in your life are you on autopilot, creating the same situation for yourself (in essence) over and over again? Maybe you keep dating the same romantic partner. Maybe the current model is better looking, or more successful, or slightly more open than the one before, but in essence you’re with a lover who triggers your tried-and-true insecurities, defense mechanisms, and familiar unhealthy spirals. Or maybe you find yourself in the same employment dynamic over and over again—even if you change careers completely. Maybe you’ve attracted a series of supervisors, or a series of friends, who stir up the not-good-enough feelings a parent invoked for you as a child. Escape the spin cycle by learning how to look closely at how these patterns develop and how to benefit from the opportunities they offer.

8. Permanently shift your beliefs.

Focus on the deliberate rewiring of your belief system because your beliefs are determining everything you experience as your reality. That’s not New-Age speak anymore; it’s common knowledge. It’s why researchers always have to use placebo control groups whenever they test any drug. If they don’t have a group taking a sugar pill, their findings won’t be considered valid by the agencies that govern pharmaceuticals. In pain-control experiments, when a new pain pill is tested, fully half of the sufferers who are given a placebo will report having less pain. The mind is that powerful and the scientific community knows it. Changing your mind will change your life. Many of your limiting beliefs are not unique to you; our culture suffers from a long-standing epidemic of crappy shared beliefs. Most of us, at some level, harbor the same fears, the same tragic self-doubts, and the same profound longings to be liberated from our self-made prisons. In our outer circumstances, we may vary greatly, but at deeper levels, this is seldom the case. If you aren’t living the precisely blissful, richly textured life you crave, take the steps to discover which of your beliefs are keeping you from it and what you can do about that.

9. Dream loudly.

Stop limiting yourself according to what seems practical. Practical goals do not inspire enough passion to propel you toward their certain fruition. As John F. Kennedy wisely surmised, “The problems of the world cannot possibly be solved by skeptics or cynics whose horizons are limited by the obvious realities. We need men who can dream of things that never were.” Be those men (and women.).

10. Live passionately.

Once you’ve done the self-examination work to uncover your most delicious desires, don’t pussyfoot toward them. Hurl yourself recklessly in their direction! Trust that the Universe wildly adores you and is always orchestrating on your behalf. It’s been waiting for you to get pumped and grow a pair so that it could swoop in with divine assistance that will leave you breathless.



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Thursday, July 14, 2016

$1 Introduction to Hypnosis. Get addicted


Welcome. 
This is the beginning of your journey. 
 A journey into total mental slavery. 
 This is a video that will introduce you into the world of hypnosis. 
 You have ideas of obedience, or even ruin, on behalf of a beautiful Domme like me.
If you have never heard of me or have but are too afraid to purchase one of my videos here is an affordable option to see, hear and worship me. 
You will think of me every night before you sleep and think of me first thing when you awake. 
As you close your eyes to sleep my body and voice will be in your head, wrapped around your thoughts and feelings.
This video will create an addiction that will grow.
I will take you under hypnosis and you will feel my control This is real. Very real indeed. 
I have no problem at all to change your mind, to bend your reality to my needs, to addict you and exploit you. 
 You have been warned. But you want to continue anyway, don’t you? 

After this video I give you permission to tribute to show your gratitude for allowing you view this video at such a reduced price. 


$1 

Friday, July 1, 2016

Assnosis pendulum addiction

Stare at the pendulum.
Fix your eyes on it.
Take a few deep breaths.
Just keep breathing deeply.
Watch it swing in-front of my perfect ass and get addicted to my words.




Contains subliminal mindfuck techniques, recall, flashing images, binaural beats, arm lifting and hand gluing together instruction.

Friday, June 24, 2016

Sissynosis

You want to become a woman. 
You need to submit, to dream, to embrace, to obey. 
You need to become female. 
Becoming female is fun. 
Obey the cock. 
Feminize yourself. 
You’re a sissy whore who needs to submit to feminization hypnosis. 
You know this. 
Just give in and start embracing your feminine side. 
Gender transformation is what you need in life. 

Watch this video and feel my control over your mind. 
Today is the day you have been waiting for. You're ready for this. 
Just submit. 

The new you will be better than the old you could ever be. Everything about you will be better. The way you look. The way you dress. Even the way you think. 
Now lets begin.


$14.99



Contains subliminal mindfuck techniques, recall, feminisation/sissification suggestions, flashing images and binaural beats.






Saturday, June 11, 2016

A few of my favourite ladies!

Niteflirt Flirts who I admire.
Make sure you follow them on twitter and favourite their listings on Niteflirt
Don't forget to check out their goody bags too!
If you aren't already a member then join using my affiliate link here: https://www.niteflirt.com/pid/25798424 
CROSS POSTED FROM: http://mistressxuk.blogspot.co.uk/2016/06/niteflirt-flirts-woments.html
MistressX
Twitter @M1stressx
Shayna Domina 
Twitter @ShaynaDomina

Goddess Natasha
Twitter @NatashaHertz
https://www.niteflirt.com/listings/show/9531839

Glitter Goddess
Twitter @1GlitterGoddess

Miss Victoria Reign

Mistress Madison
Twitter @MeanLadyMADISON

Ebony Goddess Amber
Twitter @EbonyGoddessA
https://www.niteflirt.com/EbonyGoddessAmber

Candace Suzanne

Jadah Cortez

Lady Bella Nova
Twitter @LadyBellaNova

GI Jane

Mistress Platinum Scarlette
Twitter @PlatScarlette
https://www.niteflirt.com/listings/show/10059873

Amy Paige
Twitter @Amypaigesexy

Mistress Bitchin
Twitter @MistressBitchIn
https://www.niteflirt.com/MistressBitchin

Goddess Nelani
Twitter @MzNelani

Domina Dante Posh
Twitter: @DominaDantePosh


Pippa Lily
Twitter @Pippa_Lily
https://www.niteflirt.com/pippalily

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Monday, June 6, 2016

Get addicted to my voice and beautiful holy porcelain ass.

Get addicted to my voice and beautiful holy porcelain ass.
Feel the strength of my angelic bottom over your brain and wallet.
Shorts, thong and bare bottom Ass Worship.
16 minutes 16 seconds $9.99





Thursday, May 19, 2016

Saturday, January 16, 2016

Failed & ruined orgasm

Failed & ruined orgasm

This pathetic bitch boy is finally allowed a release after a days abuse and filming. The only problem is he can't cum! Pathic loser!! The two Mistresses laugh at how stupid he is. HE CAN'T EVEN MAKE HIMSELF CUM! How will he ever please a woman?


Thursday, January 14, 2016

Red thigh-high socks photoset

For my foot and sock fetish lovers


24 Photographs of me in my red thigh high socks and corset.
I take off my panties and feed them to you with my foot!

Thursday, October 29, 2015

Black phonesex with Hot ebony phonesex girls

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