So you're interested in FinDom?

Let’s start simply: What is findom? Financial Domination. There are some guys out there who want women to use them for money, or they recognize that in one way or another they pay for "it." This is something that elicits certain sexual responses from the men. As someone succintly put it, “It’s BDSM for millionaires.” Of course the one percent would weaponize and sexualize money. However, not all finsubs are rich, it's more like "If he has 500 in his wallet, giving 20 means little, but if he has 40 in his wallet, giving 20 is a big give."

In a findom (often stylized as FinDom) relationship, the male gives a woman money. In return the woman hurls insults at the man. Most of the time this is done online, and often without the couple seeing one another. When they do see one another it is on webcam.

Want a findom relationship? If you’re a man (or woman) with money and want to be insulted, half the battle is done. The next step is choosing a partner you’re willing to give money to in return for their insults. Seems pretty simple doesn’t it?

For the Dom/Domme, it is not quite as easy. While there have been a lot of people who have tried to be doms, most have failed. Our mystery man reveals, “there is a stark difference between a financial dominatrix and a mean girl demanding money.” A financial dom needs to know what buttons to push and when to back off. It’s a give and take, alas some of the newbies who have tried this lifestyle have only wanted to take.

For doms the allure of a findom relationship is quite obvious. Yet, many of them quit after just a few days because they aren’t making money like they thought. In deed rather than being a get rich quick scheme, these relationships are serious business. For those that are serious and committed they can make a living doing this.

The sub gets something else altogher. A gentleman interviewed said he entered into the relationship because of the danger. He said, “I got into the relationship knowing I could be risking everything. My wife had no idea, my partner had all of my banking information and would punish me by cutting off debit cards if misbehaved.” He went on to reveal his wife found out about his other relationship. “When she discovered what I was up to, thank to her checking my internet browsing history, she divorced me. I lost everything. It was a thrill and my partner didn’t stop talking to me and we ended up dating in real life, it’s why I moved to the City.”

Whenever you are ready to experience FinDom with an experienced FemDom, give in and give me a call! Yes, my line is called the Loser Line, interpret that how you will! I'm Meija (pronounced mee-jah) or Mistress Meija to you.

A few days left with the holiday line - DJ's Bday Month continues...

Click to send some birthday love! $$$







and....click on me to go right to the holiday line! As always, though it's a day to celebrate, you get the treats! ($1.00 line is for all, current callers or new! Come say hello!)

Miss Jenn Davis to Appear on Madison Young's NEW TV series "Submission Possible"

 

So I have some EXCITING NEWS to share with you.

A few months ago I filmed this episode with host Madison Young where we talk about spanking, implements, domestic discipline, and other kinky topics. At one point in the Seattle episode of her TV series, Submission Possible, I even get to spank her! She's got such an adorable & luscious bottom and she enjoys getting spanked (and who wouldn't want to go over my lap & get spanked?)

The Seattle episode will be coming out SOON & I will post more info on the VIP Premiere event in about a week. I will post that here & also on my website!

https://www.missjenndavis.com/p/phone.html

I also talk a bit about it on my podcast:

Click here for Miss Jenn's Spanking and All Things Femdom podcast

and of course, you can always call me on NiteFlirt.

We can talk about the show, talk about your kinks & fetishes, or just talk about life in general.

Call me directly
1-800-863-5478
ext: 11437472

https://www.niteflirt.com/listings/show/11437472-Submit-to-a-Dominant-Woman-295-videos-audios

Did you know that I have a Kink & Femdom podcast?

My newest episode is now up so go check it out!

Tennis Anyone? [Preview] https://anchor.fm/missjenndavis/episodes/Tennis-Anyone--PREVIEW-e11ufuk

A description from the FULL clip:

Alexis has a problem. Her weekly tennis game is being disrupted because one of the players is moving across the country. Needing a replacement, who can compete with 3 former NCAA women's tennis players, she thinks of her office mate Ron. The other players aren't so sure, but she promises she can make Ron fit in.

Everything is going well until a trip to the tennis boutique convinces Alexis that a tennis dress might be a better choice for her reluctant coworker than the simple tennis whites she had originally planned. What started out as a friendly game becomes sheer humiliation for Ron and pure pleasure for the girls.

This story contains elements of female domination, feminization, and spanking.

So go check out my podcast The Spanking & All Things Femdom Podcast

hosted by Miss Jenn Davis

and here's the link again:

https://anchor.fm/missjenndavis/episodes/Tennis-Anyone--PREVIEW-e11ufuk/a-a5o6j11

And to contact me:

https://www.missjenndavis.com/p/phone.html

https://www.niteflirt.com/listings/show/11437472-Submit-to-a-Dominant-Woman-295-videos-audios

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61 year old Cougar seduces men from 18 through 80 years old

I just finished a call with one of my regular callers from overseas. He's a 30 year old sexy hard body that has a huge appetite for older seductive women like myself. I'm in the prime of my life. Yes, at 61 I still look good and I have have a high sexual libido. My pussy can still take the hard strokes of a young 20 year old, or a retired 70 year old man. My naughty side and sex appeal will bring in all ages of men. All it takes is one look at these perky tits, my smooth legs and my cock sucking lips. Im always available for some kinky phonesex with all ages, races, and locations. As long as you have a hard boner and a credit card, Im available. I love what I do. Im addicted to what I do. I was made to seduce and please men. My body was made for it.

Emasculating you with every call

If you call me and I hear a hint of weakness, sissiness, or submissive in your voice, I will treat you accordingly. I will laugh at you, ignore, you, demand you to send me a tribute, or I will just tell you how I feel about you. Which will be a bunch of demands and inults.I know you weak worthless men that call with your sissy fantasies are weak males that have nothing for me but a small cock and a credit card. I know you get off on being bullied and disrespected because you are weak and I know how to emasculate you. If you were a man I would treat you as such, but weak boys get handled. You are only wanted for you money and to keep around for my own enjoyment and amusement. But you must pay of course, even if you are only being use.

"Crying as Cathartic Release" Article - Miss Jenn Davis

Hello, I'm Miss Jenn Davis.  I'm a Phone Dominatrix, Domestic Disciplinarian, Author (check me out on Amazon!), Spanking Model, Fetish Model and Content Producer. You can find out more about me on my website: https://www.missjenndavis.com/p/phone.html

S. Nicole Lane interviewed me for an article on crying. My portion was about crying as a cathartic release but her entire article is much more than just that. It's about Dacryphilia. Dacryphilia is a form of paraphilia (sexual arousal from something outside the norm) where a person is aroused by tears or sobbing. The entire article is here: "Does Crying Turn You On?" by S. Nicole Lane and I really urge you read it. It's interesting, informative, and goes much more in-depth than what I wrote here.

If you don't have the time to read the entire article, which really goes in depth on the matter. Here is the portion that she wrote from interviewing me in regards to crying as cathartic release:

Crying as a Cathartic Release

Miss Jenn Davis, a professional disciplinarian and fetish model, explained that many of her submissives want to cry. She said that before seeing many of them, they usually send an email that states their goal is “to get spanked to the point of crying.” She went on to say that, “For some, it may be the bond that develops between spanker and spankee, and feeling unconditionally loved at the time of spanking. Feeling like the spanker really cares about their personal well-being and that they are being spanked out of a place of love and wanting to bring out the best in that person. If the person is wanting to be spanked for a reason or role play, I explain that if they want to have a better chance at crying, they need to have something that is an emotional reason for them."

As a professional spanker, Davis finds that, “Crying is very cathartic and and being able to ‘release’ those pent up emotions, all that stuff bottled up inside, sometimes for years or decades, is an amazing experience.”

Since tears are associated with negative emotions, it is often common to forget that tears, or sobbing, can be a therapeutic experience. For the crier, releasing their emotion can be a natural thing that results in them feeling refreshed and renewed.

Just in case you missed the link above, here is the link to the article in Kinkly.com about Dacryphilia

More about Miss Jenn Davis:

Miss Jenn Davis has spanked more bottoms than most. As a well-respected author and educator, she specializes in the playful sides of BDSM, from spanking (her first love) to ABDL, feminization, and humiliation. 

With insights gained from years in the lifestyle, she brings a unique perspective matched with practical advice for those interested in expanding their current relationships. Friendly and non-judgmental Jenn has helped individuals and couples of all types discover and express their fun and erotic inner selves.

She has appeared in print, online, TV and podcasts as an advocate for authentic human expression. Jenn is available for media appearances and individualized consulting. To contact her, send an email to: missjenn@pm.me

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My Article on SimplySxy - on JOI

First, I wrote an article on SimplySxy about a year ago:
https://simplysxy.com/articles/2018/07/08/what-to-know-about-joi/

During Jerkoff Instruction (JOI) a Domme (me) will tell and sometimes instruct a man how to masturbate. The instruction will usually tell men how hard or soft to jerk off, how rapid his strokes should be, and where and how firmly he should touch. 

There are two JOI: jerkoff encouragement (JOE) which is positive reinforcement helping a male to orgasm (think Pavlovian mentality with "good boys" included.), and jerkoff humiliation,  making the man feel dirty or ashamed of his arousal and desire to masturbate.

I do have a specific line for it here:

Or you can request a custom (that will guide YOU specifically how to masturbate!)

Packing Away Last Year Looking Forward

This past year was brutal on my family and myself, not just the Covid crisis but also several tragedies that the universe kept throwing at us. We had a tragic death in our family that took months to get somewhat settled finally. Then there was a car wreck where a “nice” guy swerved over into our lane at almost 90 miles per hour to create many health issues for me and others. We also lost four pets; two were older, one was a sickly animal we were trying to nurse back to health, the one that tore our hearts out was our three-year-old dog. The veterinarian said he had a congenital disability between his stomach and intestines; nothing could be done, and no way anyone would have known. If you follow me on some of the social media’s you have seen us go through three bouts this year with what was thought to be Covid, but we always tested negative. It has been difficult mental health-wise with having to stay home like it is for so many others. I have issues with being around people, so my regular routine of using weekly shopping to combat difficult with all the shutdowns. That all being said, I am in the same predicament as many others. I encourage everyone to reach out to quieter people. Ask people, even strangers, if they are okay; we all need a bit of social reassurance. 

I have spent the last two months working on the new year, and I think it will be fantastic once everything starts publishing. I am working on my podcasts, patreon, youtube channel, a class on starting an adult business, and I have several stories ready to publish. About September, the bottom fell out of my ambition; I slept a lot than couldn’t sleep at all. Eating anything was a chore, and I have lost about 30 pounds. Things are looking up, though, and these past two weeks, I am finding my desire to create again. Several of you have reached out to me discussing my youtube channel and sent me many great ideas. I am working on a couple of series, one about my personal life living in a long term poly marriage. My husband and I have been together for over 30 years, and we have been with Chilly for over 16 years. Another series I am working on is about fetishes I have been introduced to over the numerous decades we have been involved in the adult industry. An important goal for me is to finish two of my erotic novels close to completion and get MP3’s made of all the short stories up on Patreon and Amazon. 

Patreon is going way up the priority list. I really like that site, and having access to fans during this whole pandemic, it was pushed to the bottom of all lists. This past week I laid out everything I want to get up in the first quarter. There are several short story ideas that I have worked on in the last couple of months. They will be exclusive to Patreon and if you follow me on there, send me ideas. I like hearing from everyone. If you are not part of my Patreon but want to shoot me over some story ideas or even some of your personal adventures, please email me or reach out on social media. 

This year has been a struggle for so many people, not just the fear of sickness or the frustration of dealing with ever-changing social interaction rules. Depression is a struggle, whether it is situational or chemically created by the body. Be kind to the people you meet; most of us fail to realize the impact a simple gesture or interaction can have on those around us. Politics do not matter in the end; our neighbors, friends, and family are all we truly have in this life. The rule of life is getting as far down the road as we can one foot in front of the other is the only way we pass the test. I hope the new year brings us all exciting changes or at least a bit of peace.  

Diane Callaway has been working in the adult industry for over sixteen years. She writes erotica self-published and ghostwriting. Erotica is one of many genres she specializes in. If you need help with a start to finish product, you can reach her dianecallaway@gmail.com Diane has a patreon where she publishes her stories, mp3, blogs, and articles https://www.patreon.com/dianecallaway. Her erotica and paperbacks offered on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Diane--Callaway/e/B07D9WXXT9

Looking for an author, she offers her services through Fiverr: https://www.fiverr.com/dianecallaway

Horny, bored and ready for phonesex on Niteflirt

I've been in the house lately feeling very bored and horny. I have been staying in doors because I am 60 years old and I cannot afford to get sick. The weather keeps changing in my neck of the woods. So Im online most of the time ready to play with this wet Cougar Pussy that men seem to love. I have become a porn fanatic since Quarantine. I've been discovering so much porn that I nornally do not watch, such as Transexual Porn, Lesbian scenes and cum shot compiliations. Overall, I've been bored and loney, but still enjoying my calls and watching porn. 1-800-TO-FLIRT 1-800-863-5478 ext: 9786723