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Showing posts with label That Sexy Woman. Show all posts
Showing posts with label That Sexy Woman. Show all posts
Thursday, January 29, 2015
Monday, September 22, 2014
some basic definitions...
bdsm scene
BDSM is a variety of erotic practices involving dominance and submission, role-playing, restraint, and other interpersonal dynamics.
Mistress - a title for a female Dominant - "Mistress" is very commonly the title used for a professional Dominatrix, although not exclusively. Some lifestyle Dominant women might choose the title Mistress. There is, for some women, a negative connotation with this title - especially those of us who are a little older. In earlier times, in the vanilla world, "Mistress" was the name given to the illicit lover of a married man.
BDSM - Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission, Sadism & Masochism. A term which came into use in the 1990's, thanks to the internet.
SSC - Safe, Sane and Consensual
RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink
Subspace - a feeling of euphoria, similar to a morphine high, experienced by bottoms during an intense BDSM scene
Topspace - a feeling of being in "the zone" when in control of a BDSM scene - the Top may become oblivious to surroundings
Subdrop - an emotional state resulting from the disappearance of the exhilaration of Subspace - can be up to 3 days later
Topdrop - an emotional state resulting from the let down after an intense scene
Aftercare - the administration of nurturing care and emotional support to each other after a BDSM scene
BDSM is a variety of erotic practices involving dominance and submission, role-playing, restraint, and other interpersonal dynamics.
Mistress - a title for a female Dominant - "Mistress" is very commonly the title used for a professional Dominatrix, although not exclusively. Some lifestyle Dominant women might choose the title Mistress. There is, for some women, a negative connotation with this title - especially those of us who are a little older. In earlier times, in the vanilla world, "Mistress" was the name given to the illicit lover of a married man.
BDSM - Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission, Sadism & Masochism. A term which came into use in the 1990's, thanks to the internet.
SSC - Safe, Sane and Consensual
RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink
Subspace - a feeling of euphoria, similar to a morphine high, experienced by bottoms during an intense BDSM scene
Topspace - a feeling of being in "the zone" when in control of a BDSM scene - the Top may become oblivious to surroundings
Subdrop - an emotional state resulting from the disappearance of the exhilaration of Subspace - can be up to 3 days later
Topdrop - an emotional state resulting from the let down after an intense scene
Aftercare - the administration of nurturing care and emotional support to each other after a BDSM scene
Thursday, December 27, 2012
Ok, who are we kidding? I am a nerd. If you enjoy talking to me, you are likely a nerd too. There's nothing wrong with that, in fact the way I see it...the brain is the largest sex organ.
It occurred to me over the past few days...after playing with a full time, real time...in it for a couple decades player...and we acquired some FANTASTIC photos...
rather than captioning them with something of a sexual nature...we referenced Capn Kirk (old school Trek ftw!) Obi Wan (fucking rebel scum!) and Anakin (awwww yeah! <3) but I digress...
If you are looking for something different, you've found it. If a conversation sparks and kindles your drive...I'm here.
Come to the Dark Side!
DJ
A fun little game, ala burlesque:
Sunday, November 25, 2012
What happens when you give up control?
admit it.
Give over control to a woman (Me) who is fully capable of making or breaking you. I've recently taken control of three that shall remain nameless. One cannot access their computer (isn't TV fun?) One is locked in Chastity and is mailing me the key and the other? He had to burn his "big boy pants"! Yep, only panties for him.
It's your turn.
Surely there is a goal, something you'd like to achieve that within your own scope of abilities cannot grasp? Be it weight loss, making more money, doing better etc?
Go ahead, think about it...I'll wait.
Yeah, you've got it. So now, what to do to achieve that goal? Contact me. I will put you on a regime and methodology that will cause you to achieve/attain your goals. What do I get out of it? (Oh you know I'm in it for some reason right?)
Your servitude. Your gratitude. Your loyalty.
Scary? Are you worried? No reason to be. I won't bring you harm (well, much)
The time to give up control is now.
xoxo DJ
Tuesday, October 2, 2012
On formalities
Occasionally I get questions like, "What shall I call you? What does DJ stand for? Can I call you DJ?" etc. Honestly, as long as there is respect shown for who I am to you. I'm okay with any of the above. There are a few, a small handful, allowed to call me by my name.
That said, I have to laugh when those of us in the business get full of themselves with titles and the like. Look, we're all in the same business. But whether you're Master _____ or Mistress ____ or even if you call yourself Lord____ or Goddess______ I could give zero fucks about it.
We're in the same line of work.
That said...Yes, those of you that submit to me...It's Mistress DJ or Ma'am or even just Mistress. When not in scene, DJ is acceptable...clear enough? hehe.
That said, I've been having some delicious calls for my Masturbation Class. If you've not checked it out yet..you should.
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