Racial (Asian) Fetishization

Asian women are often forced into a caricature as either docile or sexually alluring, dutiful or domineering, the “wilting flower” or the “dragon lady,” caught between two contradictory labels imposed by men’s sexual fantasies and normalized through portrayals in film, television, plays and public policy. In the case of the Atlanta shooting on March 16, where six of the eight victims were Asian women, they were murdered because of these stereotypes. The shooter denied that he committed a hate crime and said that he was motivated by his “sex addiction,” but that excuse is rooted in the historic racist and sexist stereotypes imposed on Asian women.

In a society with a growing awareness of racial issues, the fetishization of Asian women is still normalized. From a study analyzing users’ demographic data and activity on the Facebook dating app “Are You Interested,” researchers found that men of all races, with the exception of Asian men, preferred Asian women. Although having a dating preference seems harmless, claiming to be attracted most to a specific race — especially a group as diverse as Asian women — is problematic because that attraction is likely based on harmful stereotypes about that race. 

You’re doing a disservice to both yourself and others when you refuse to see people past these preconceived labels. Being seen like a sexual object when I haven’t done anything to be seen like that is generally upsetting.

You’re doing a disservice to both yourself and others when you refuse to see people past these preconceived labels. Being seen like a sexual object when I haven’t done anything to be seen like that would be upsetting.

I bring this up as on Niteflirt, I am expected to either be docile or Dragon Lady. I am neither and both! I am naturally Dominant as my mom is Hawaiian and naturally dominant. No, I don't speak Korean and no, I don't have an accent. I am 3rd generation Korean and I was born and raised in San Francisco, now residing in Seattle.

Look, I get it, my looks are unique. When you are ready to delve deeper than what's on the surface, give me a call. (Be prepared to submit to a woman that likes to be in control)

Find me on Niteflirt here.

Phenomenal Woman--that's me.

All hail the Queen! It's finally Summer and here in Vegas it is HOT HOT HOT! You boys just don't behave do you? Even with covid still going on, you find ways to sneaky sneak around and get your kink on. Well, I'm here to provide you with a Domme worthy of bowing down to. Here's a clip from one of my favorite movies and the peerless Ms Jackson (cuz you're nasty!) Now get down on those crusty knees and call me!



Click on my gorgeous visage to go to my lines on Niteflirt!

So you're interested in FinDom?

Let’s start simply: What is findom? Financial Domination. There are some guys out there who want women to use them for money, or they recognize that in one way or another they pay for "it." This is something that elicits certain sexual responses from the men. As someone succintly put it, “It’s BDSM for millionaires.” Of course the one percent would weaponize and sexualize money. However, not all finsubs are rich, it's more like "If he has 500 in his wallet, giving 20 means little, but if he has 40 in his wallet, giving 20 is a big give."

In a findom (often stylized as FinDom) relationship, the male gives a woman money. In return the woman hurls insults at the man. Most of the time this is done online, and often without the couple seeing one another. When they do see one another it is on webcam.

Want a findom relationship? If you’re a man (or woman) with money and want to be insulted, half the battle is done. The next step is choosing a partner you’re willing to give money to in return for their insults. Seems pretty simple doesn’t it?

For the Dom/Domme, it is not quite as easy. While there have been a lot of people who have tried to be doms, most have failed. Our mystery man reveals, “there is a stark difference between a financial dominatrix and a mean girl demanding money.” A financial dom needs to know what buttons to push and when to back off. It’s a give and take, alas some of the newbies who have tried this lifestyle have only wanted to take.

For doms the allure of a findom relationship is quite obvious. Yet, many of them quit after just a few days because they aren’t making money like they thought. In deed rather than being a get rich quick scheme, these relationships are serious business. For those that are serious and committed they can make a living doing this.

The sub gets something else altogher. A gentleman interviewed said he entered into the relationship because of the danger. He said, “I got into the relationship knowing I could be risking everything. My wife had no idea, my partner had all of my banking information and would punish me by cutting off debit cards if misbehaved.” He went on to reveal his wife found out about his other relationship. “When she discovered what I was up to, thank to her checking my internet browsing history, she divorced me. I lost everything. It was a thrill and my partner didn’t stop talking to me and we ended up dating in real life, it’s why I moved to the City.”

Whenever you are ready to experience FinDom with an experienced FemDom, give in and give me a call! Yes, my line is called the Loser Line, interpret that how you will! I'm Meija (pronounced mee-jah) or Mistress Meija to you.

A few days left with the holiday line - DJ's Bday Month continues...

Click to send some birthday love! $$$







and....click on me to go right to the holiday line! As always, though it's a day to celebrate, you get the treats! ($1.00 line is for all, current callers or new! Come say hello!)

Miss Jenn Davis to Appear on Madison Young's NEW TV series "Submission Possible"

 

So I have some EXCITING NEWS to share with you.

A few months ago I filmed this episode with host Madison Young where we talk about spanking, implements, domestic discipline, and other kinky topics. At one point in the Seattle episode of her TV series, Submission Possible, I even get to spank her! She's got such an adorable & luscious bottom and she enjoys getting spanked (and who wouldn't want to go over my lap & get spanked?)

The Seattle episode will be coming out SOON & I will post more info on the VIP Premiere event in about a week. I will post that here & also on my website!

https://www.missjenndavis.com/p/phone.html

I also talk a bit about it on my podcast:

Click here for Miss Jenn's Spanking and All Things Femdom podcast

and of course, you can always call me on NiteFlirt.

We can talk about the show, talk about your kinks & fetishes, or just talk about life in general.

Call me directly
1-800-863-5478
ext: 11437472

https://www.niteflirt.com/listings/show/11437472-Submit-to-a-Dominant-Woman-295-videos-audios

Did you know that I have a Kink & Femdom podcast?

My newest episode is now up so go check it out!

Tennis Anyone? [Preview] https://anchor.fm/missjenndavis/episodes/Tennis-Anyone--PREVIEW-e11ufuk

A description from the FULL clip:

Alexis has a problem. Her weekly tennis game is being disrupted because one of the players is moving across the country. Needing a replacement, who can compete with 3 former NCAA women's tennis players, she thinks of her office mate Ron. The other players aren't so sure, but she promises she can make Ron fit in.

Everything is going well until a trip to the tennis boutique convinces Alexis that a tennis dress might be a better choice for her reluctant coworker than the simple tennis whites she had originally planned. What started out as a friendly game becomes sheer humiliation for Ron and pure pleasure for the girls.

This story contains elements of female domination, feminization, and spanking.

So go check out my podcast The Spanking & All Things Femdom Podcast

hosted by Miss Jenn Davis

and here's the link again:

https://anchor.fm/missjenndavis/episodes/Tennis-Anyone--PREVIEW-e11ufuk/a-a5o6j11

And to contact me:

https://www.missjenndavis.com/p/phone.html

https://www.niteflirt.com/listings/show/11437472-Submit-to-a-Dominant-Woman-295-videos-audios

Call me directly
1-800-863-5478
ext: 11437472

61 year old Cougar seduces men from 18 through 80 years old

I just finished a call with one of my regular callers from overseas. He's a 30 year old sexy hard body that has a huge appetite for older seductive women like myself. I'm in the prime of my life. Yes, at 61 I still look good and I have have a high sexual libido. My pussy can still take the hard strokes of a young 20 year old, or a retired 70 year old man. My naughty side and sex appeal will bring in all ages of men. All it takes is one look at these perky tits, my smooth legs and my cock sucking lips. Im always available for some kinky phonesex with all ages, races, and locations. As long as you have a hard boner and a credit card, Im available. I love what I do. Im addicted to what I do. I was made to seduce and please men. My body was made for it.

Emasculating you with every call

If you call me and I hear a hint of weakness, sissiness, or submissive in your voice, I will treat you accordingly. I will laugh at you, ignore, you, demand you to send me a tribute, or I will just tell you how I feel about you. Which will be a bunch of demands and inults.I know you weak worthless men that call with your sissy fantasies are weak males that have nothing for me but a small cock and a credit card. I know you get off on being bullied and disrespected because you are weak and I know how to emasculate you. If you were a man I would treat you as such, but weak boys get handled. You are only wanted for you money and to keep around for my own enjoyment and amusement. But you must pay of course, even if you are only being use.

"Crying as Cathartic Release" Article - Miss Jenn Davis

Hello, I'm Miss Jenn Davis.  I'm a Phone Dominatrix, Domestic Disciplinarian, Author (check me out on Amazon!), Spanking Model, Fetish Model and Content Producer. You can find out more about me on my website: https://www.missjenndavis.com/p/phone.html

S. Nicole Lane interviewed me for an article on crying. My portion was about crying as a cathartic release but her entire article is much more than just that. It's about Dacryphilia. Dacryphilia is a form of paraphilia (sexual arousal from something outside the norm) where a person is aroused by tears or sobbing. The entire article is here: "Does Crying Turn You On?" by S. Nicole Lane and I really urge you read it. It's interesting, informative, and goes much more in-depth than what I wrote here.

If you don't have the time to read the entire article, which really goes in depth on the matter. Here is the portion that she wrote from interviewing me in regards to crying as cathartic release:

Crying as a Cathartic Release

Miss Jenn Davis, a professional disciplinarian and fetish model, explained that many of her submissives want to cry. She said that before seeing many of them, they usually send an email that states their goal is “to get spanked to the point of crying.” She went on to say that, “For some, it may be the bond that develops between spanker and spankee, and feeling unconditionally loved at the time of spanking. Feeling like the spanker really cares about their personal well-being and that they are being spanked out of a place of love and wanting to bring out the best in that person. If the person is wanting to be spanked for a reason or role play, I explain that if they want to have a better chance at crying, they need to have something that is an emotional reason for them."

As a professional spanker, Davis finds that, “Crying is very cathartic and and being able to ‘release’ those pent up emotions, all that stuff bottled up inside, sometimes for years or decades, is an amazing experience.”

Since tears are associated with negative emotions, it is often common to forget that tears, or sobbing, can be a therapeutic experience. For the crier, releasing their emotion can be a natural thing that results in them feeling refreshed and renewed.

Just in case you missed the link above, here is the link to the article in Kinkly.com about Dacryphilia

More about Miss Jenn Davis:

Miss Jenn Davis has spanked more bottoms than most. As a well-respected author and educator, she specializes in the playful sides of BDSM, from spanking (her first love) to ABDL, feminization, and humiliation. 

With insights gained from years in the lifestyle, she brings a unique perspective matched with practical advice for those interested in expanding their current relationships. Friendly and non-judgmental Jenn has helped individuals and couples of all types discover and express their fun and erotic inner selves.

She has appeared in print, online, TV and podcasts as an advocate for authentic human expression. Jenn is available for media appearances and individualized consulting. To contact her, send an email to: missjenn@pm.me

Call me directly
1-800-863-5478
ext: 11437472

My Article on SimplySxy - on JOI

First, I wrote an article on SimplySxy about a year ago:
https://simplysxy.com/articles/2018/07/08/what-to-know-about-joi/

During Jerkoff Instruction (JOI) a Domme (me) will tell and sometimes instruct a man how to masturbate. The instruction will usually tell men how hard or soft to jerk off, how rapid his strokes should be, and where and how firmly he should touch. 

There are two JOI: jerkoff encouragement (JOE) which is positive reinforcement helping a male to orgasm (think Pavlovian mentality with "good boys" included.), and jerkoff humiliation,  making the man feel dirty or ashamed of his arousal and desire to masturbate.

I do have a specific line for it here:

Or you can request a custom (that will guide YOU specifically how to masturbate!)