Best of the Flirts: findom

Let’s start simply: What is findom? Financial Domination. There are some guys out there who want women to use them for money, or they recognize that in one way or another they pay for "it." This is something that elicits certain sexual responses from the men. As someone succintly put it, “It’s BDSM for millionaires.” Of course the one percent would weaponize and sexualize money. However, not all finsubs are rich, it's more like "If he has 500 in his wallet, giving 20 means little, but if he has 40 in his wallet, giving 20 is a big give."

In a findom (often stylized as FinDom) relationship, the male gives a woman money. In return the woman hurls insults at the man. Most of the time this is done online, and often without the couple seeing one another. When they do see one another it is on webcam.

Want a findom relationship? If you’re a man (or woman) with money and want to be insulted, half the battle is done. The next step is choosing a partner you’re willing to give money to in return for their insults. Seems pretty simple doesn’t it?

For the Dom/Domme, it is not quite as easy. While there have been a lot of people who have tried to be doms, most have failed. Our mystery man reveals, “there is a stark difference between a financial dominatrix and a mean girl demanding money.” A financial dom needs to know what buttons to push and when to back off. It’s a give and take, alas some of the newbies who have tried this lifestyle have only wanted to take.

For doms the allure of a findom relationship is quite obvious. Yet, many of them quit after just a few days because they aren’t making money like they thought. In deed rather than being a get rich quick scheme, these relationships are serious business. For those that are serious and committed they can make a living doing this.

The sub gets something else altogher. A gentleman interviewed said he entered into the relationship because of the danger. He said, “I got into the relationship knowing I could be risking everything. My wife had no idea, my partner had all of my banking information and would punish me by cutting off debit cards if misbehaved.” He went on to reveal his wife found out about his other relationship. “When she discovered what I was up to, thank to her checking my internet browsing history, she divorced me. I lost everything. It was a thrill and my partner didn’t stop talking to me and we ended up dating in real life, it’s why I moved to the City.”

Whenever you are ready to experience FinDom with an experienced FemDom, give in and give me a call! Yes, my line is called the Loser Line, interpret that how you will! I'm Meija (pronounced mee-jah) or Mistress Meija to you.