Showing posts with label 1-800-863-5478. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 1-800-863-5478. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 29, 2019

I'm the bad guy....duh



I'm that bad type
Make your mama sad type
Make your girlfriend mad type
Might seduce your dad type
I'm the bad guy, duh...



Sometimes, I'm your angel, sent straight from heaven...
seems that I show up with just the right thing at just the right time.
Othertimes...I'm the bad guy.



Wednesday, January 17, 2018

So whatcha want?? How to please your Domme...


Here is another one from the search terms list: “how to please your Dominant”.

Let us back up just a little bit. What happens in a Dominant/submissive relationship? One thing that happens, or should happen, is that the Dominant learns about the submissive. The Dominant should always be learning as much as possible about her submissive. Learn about him as a person, as a submissive, as a sexual being, as a spiritual being. Learn about him who he is, what he likes, how he thinks how he feels, everything about him that a Dominant can know. Reciprocally, the submissive should be learning all she can about his Dominant.
The submissive should learn the Dominant’s likes and dislikes. The submissive should ask when he does not know what those might be in a situation. He should study the Dominant to see when she is pleased and when she is displeased. I recommend submissives keep journals to help them keep track of what things please their Dominants. But that is not all.
Once you learn a thing pleases your Dominant, practice it. Get better at it. This will please your Dominant not just because you do it better, but because your taking time to become better at it for her will be pleasing.

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Saturday, November 4, 2017

FemmeDomme Assisgnments by DJ

Day one:

Go to the store and purchase: a pair of panties, feminine napkins (pads) and a package of condoms. As SHE (make sure you get a female) rings you up -- ask if they have the condoms in extra small.

Day two:

Switch your deodorant to womens scent/brand.

Day Three

get some toenail polish and paint your toenails...if nothing else...paint them clear! (pink or red preferred)

Day Four:

You will edge (NO CUMMING) three times, right to the edge....

This should keep you busy for a while...

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Saturday, October 17, 2015

I'm declaring today Stroke It Saturday!

And here you have it stroker boys!! From the pages of Men's Health:

5 reasons why you should fap/wank/tug/jerk you get the point!

It prevents cancer. An Australian study found that men who ejaculated more than five times a week were a third less likely to develop prostate cancer.
Disease-causing toxins build up in your urogenital tract and when you rub one out, you flush the bad guys out of your system, says Brame.

It makes you harder. As you age, you naturally lose muscle tone... even down there.
Regular sex or masturbation works out your pelvic floor muscles to prevent erectile dysfunction and incontinence. (These 8 Ways to Protect Your Erection also help.)
“It keeps the angle of your dangle perky,” says Brame. Aim to (ahem) arrive 3 to 5 times a week for rock-solid results.

It helps you last longer. Taking yourself to palm prom may help you stretch your sack sessions. “[Masturbating] an hour before a date will give you more control,” says Brame.
Train yourself by timing how long it takes you to orgasm, suggests Ava Cadell, Ph.D., founder of loveologyuniversity.com. If it usually takes 2 minutes solo, try for 3 next time. Or count how many strokes you need to get to your happy place.
If you’re spurting after 50, shoot for 60. “Most men can double the number of strokes and the time within one month,” Cadell says. Practice makes perfect, right?

It ups your immunity. Ejaculation increases levels of the hormone cortisol, says Jennifer Landa, M.D., a specialist in hormone therapy. Cortisol, which usually gets a bad rap as a havoc-wrecking stress hormone, actually helps regulate and maintain your immunity in the small doses.
“Masturbation can product the right environment for a strengthened immune system,” she says.

It boosts your mood. Masturbating releases a slew of feel-good neurochemicals like dopamine and oxytocin that lift your spirits, boost your satisfaction, and activate the reward circuits in your brain.



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Monday, August 10, 2015

What is a fetish? Do you have a fetish?

What Is a Sexual Fetish?
Sexual fetish describes people who are aroused by unusual parts of the body, activities, or objects that are generally not associated with conventional sex. The fetish is strong and is deep seated in the sub conscious mind. People can have sex without actually participating in the fetish activity. However, 99 per cent of people with a fetish are like Susan. They cannot have an orgasm unless they think about the fetish at the moment of explosion.

There are all kinds of sexual fetishes. Sexuality is something that is as unique as each individual. Some people fixate on parts of the body: shoes, feet, legs, bottoms, hair or armpits. Others enjoy acting out certain kinds of scenarios including Dominant/submissive role-playing, spanking, bondage, cross-dressing and trampling. Still others find certain articles of clothing or fabric stimulating such as leather, latex, rubber and even angora sweaters. The acts and scenarios attached to these fetishes are many and variable.

People With Fetishes Are Ashamed
It's no wonder. Our society labels anything sexually different as deviant or perverted. These labels hurt deeply to those whose sexual make-up is out of the norm. Fetishists feel weird, ashamed and guilty for their desires. While the fetish provides pleasure and relief, all these people have feelings of shame about being sexually different.

Fetishists are afraid of sharing their secret with a lover. They fear rejection, ridicule or abandonment. Unfortunately their fears are not unfounded. Oftentimes, people who disclose to their wives or husbands wish they hadn't. Their partners react with shock or embarrassment promoting even more feels of shame and regret.

The general public is uneducated about sexuality out of the norm. Most people (even in this day and age) resort to perfunctory sex. We are not schooled in the joys of playing and acting out fantasies. Fetishes often require special costuming, effects, verbiage and creativity. We are not trained to indulge in sexual desires. We just don't understand.

People with a fetish generally think they are the only one. It's a secret that they carry to the grave or possibly a paid professional (prostitute or Dominatrix). Sexual fetish is a misunderstood confusing topic. Why can't my partner or I just enjoy and experience sex in the moment? Is it abnormal to have strong sexual feelings or thoughts, which I can't control? Is there a 'cure' for fetish? Is it OK to act on the fetish?

Where Does The Fetish Come From?
There's no definitive answer as to why someone is or isn't precluded to having a fetish. Most remember having some kind of early childhood memory connected to the fetish.

Fear, excitement, curiosity, pleasure are powerful emotions that are felt in the body. The body remembers the charge physiologically and for some of us those moments become eroticized on a subconscious level. Even scary childhood moments. We protected ourselves by sexualizing the powerful feelings. Generally the feelings lay dormant until we become sexually active. Then out of nowhere, we connect our original moment of excitement and experience to a powerful erotic charge. This feeling is so strong that our sexuality is linked to that early sexual/excitement/fear moment.

For example, someone who likes spanking might have heard someone else get a spanked or they were spanked themselves. While the event wasn't necessarily enjoyable at the time, it made great impact. It was charged moment that later became sexualized. How does that happen? Spanking is done behind closed doors, undergarments are taken down and there is a certain degree of intimacy about the act. Hence, powerful emotions are evoked.

These powerful emotions linked to the fetish are stored in the subconscious mind. They are connected to a part of our brain that produces sexual stimulation. When puberty strikes these thoughts and feelings may re-emerge. Before we realize what's happening we are associating our childhood fear/excitement to adult sexual feelings.

Do You Have A Sexual Fetish?
Chances are good that if you were attracted to this article you have a sexual fetish or a penchant for sexuality out of the norm. You may or may not have told anyone or acted upon it. Perhaps you have see professional women who specialize in exotic forms of adult entertainment. The visits to these adult workers are satisfying in the moment but ultimately leave you feeling alone and ashamed.

You may have shared your secret desire with your significant other only to be shunned and rejected. People who have sexual fetishes are often left feeling very alone. It's just not something we feel comfortable bringing up with a friend over lunch. It's even hard to tell a therapist we've seen for ages.

Taken from here: http://www.therapywithcare.com/Article_Fetish.html

Do you have a fetish you'd like to explore?

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Friday, July 31, 2015

Racial Fetishism?

Racial fetishism involves fetishizing a person or culture belonging to a race that is not one’s own—therefore it involves racial stereotyping and objectifying those bodies who are stereotyped, and oftentimes their cultural practices.[1][2][3] This can include having strong racial preferences in dating, for example, fetishization of Asian women and men in North America is quite prevalent.[4][5] Racial fetishism has been theorized in academic discourse in relation to Freudian sexual fetishism and Marx’s notion of commodity fetishism. The term has not been largely discussed in academia, however, because Freud’s theories of sexual fetishism have become so influential since the late 19th century.[6] Some writers who have extensively discussed racial fetishism include Homi K. Bhabha, Anne McClintock, and Kobena Mercer.

Racial fetishism is also very prevalent in contemporary popular art and media. For example, Mercer wrote an essay in 1993 called “Reading Racial Fetishism: the Photographs of Robert Mapplethorpe,” where he criticizes Mapplethorpe’s photographs of black men for fetishizing their bodies, for portraying them as sexualized objects rather than human beings.[3] In pop culture, comedian Margaret Cho has been quite vocal about her distaste for Gwen Stefani’s Harajuku Girls--a group of four Japanese girls who silently follow Stefani around on tour and at photo-shoots--because they represent racial stereotypes: fetishized Japanese schoolgirls.[7]

Article came from wikipedia: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Racial_fetishism

I post about this because so many people call me simply because I'm Black. Now, I'm not going to complain about that--BUT, it's entertaining to me that you chose me over 10,000 simply because of the level of melanin in my skin. But if you're looking for a Dominatrix, who can "go there" with racial play, humiliation etc. I'm your Queen!

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Sunday, July 26, 2015

a taste of AmyPaige

A lot of men think that mature women like myself are only into younger men, for me that is not the case. As long as the man is virile and well-hung I am very happy with a range of ages. In fact, my personal fantasy involves having both a hot muscular young stud and a strong dominant older man having their way with me at the same time. Surrounded by testosterone and hard cocks brings out my sexuality intensely like nothing else!

I started on Niteflirt doing phone sex exclusively, and getting over my shyness to offer live cam shows is one of the best decisions I ever made! Whether you want to sit back and watch anonymously while we talk on the phone, or hop on cam yourself to participate that way, I love a hot sexy cam with phone session. You can buy my Skype ID directly from my Niteflirt listing or I will simply give it to you while we are on the phone when you call my cam listing. You can also let me know what kind of camshow you are interested in via NF email and I will tell you whether it is something I offer or not. I'm looking forward to hearing from you soon!

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Sunday, July 5, 2015

Did you know that there was Kink B&B's ?? Kincation!

http://kinky.com/plan-your-kinkcation-today/ I found it interesting that you can go, stay at a quality bed and breakfast: kink included. Whether you're a "beginner" or for the newlyweds that are a bit kinky...or a getaway...whatever...

I for one was gobsmacked...

and...I'll be staying here: http://www.eroticroomandboard.com/



More pics here: http://www.eroticroomandboard.com/image/68543742.jpg

So, next vacation, if you can't make it to MY dungeon...or a dungeon in general...think about a kinky b&b!

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Monday, May 18, 2015

Great links for Niteflirt fans, flirts and well...the galaxy!

http://phonesexblog.niteflirt.com/ (this is Niteflirt's blog, great stuff!)

https://twitter.com/flirtblogs (flirt blogs, for flirts that blog!)

https://twitter.com/NiteFlirtWorld (another lover of all things Niteflirt)

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There are gals (even on this blog) that webcam, do recordings and anything you can imagine!

Lastly: Niteflirt sponsors the fan award at AVN! Pretty cool. This and much more as to why Niteflirt is the place to go to for the bext phone sex.

Sunday, August 17, 2014

the more you know...

If you click on the above it will take you to NF's very own blog! pretty cool huh? and in case you didn't know you can find them on twitter at @niteflirt or https://twitter.com/NiteFlirt See ya soon! http://www.niteflirt.com/

Monday, May 26, 2014

Keep Calm and Masturbate!

Before Masturbation month comes to a close:

(THE CHALLENGE)



Here are 5 reasons to take matters into your own hands right now. (You’re welcome.)
It prevents cancer.

A 2003 Australian study found that men who ejaculated more than five times a week were a third less likely to develop prostate cancer. Disease-causing toxins build up in your urogenital tract and when you rub one out, you flush the bad guys out of your system, says Brame.
It makes you harder.

As you age, you naturally lose muscle tone … even down there. Regular sex or masturbation works out your pelvic floor muscles to prevent erectile dysfunction and incontinence. “It keeps the angle of your dangle perky,” says Brame. Aim to (ahem) arrive 3 to 5 times a week for rock-solid results.
It helps you last longer.

Taking yourself to palm prom may help you stretch your sack sessions. “[Masturbating] an hour before a date will give you more control,” says Brame. Train yourself by timing how long it takes you to orgasm, suggests Ava Cadell, Ph.D., founder of loveologyuniversity.com. If it usually takes two minutes solo, try for three next time. Or count how many strokes you need to get to your happy place. If you’re spurting after 50, shoot for 60. “Most men can double the number of strokes and the time within one month,” Cadell says. Practice makes perfect, right?
It ups your immunity.

Ejaculation increases levels of the hormone cortisol, says Jennifer Landa, M.D., a specialist in hormone therapy. Cortisol, which usually gets a bad rap as a havoc-wrecking stress hormone, actually helps regulate and maintain your immunity in the small doses. “Masturbation can product the right environment for a strengthened immune system,” she says.
It boosts your mood.

Masturbating releases a slew of feel-good neurochemicals like dopamine and oxytocin that lift your spirits, boost your satisfaction, and activate the reward circuits in your brain. “An orgasm is the biggest non-drug blast of dopamine available,” says Brame. “A brain scan of someone having an orgasm looks like a heroin addict’s."

Friday, April 25, 2014

Want to go flying with me? I'll take you there...to subspace.

Subspace: Subspace happens in two different situations. There is the first scenario where a submissive physiologically is sent to subspace via impact play. Instead of safe wording, the submissive disconnects, the stress on the body too much and the hormones kick in. This means that the submissive steps out of his or her body and shuts out the experience as his or body fights the hurt with hormones and endorphins kicking in. The other scenario, the psychological is the good stuff. This is where you enter an altered state; one where you disconnect, only in a pleasant way. There is a strong draw to your Dominant. Not necessarily one of sexual arousal, though that may be a part. The first stage is tingly, floaty...warm... Often at this point the submissives start to goad/provoke a Dominant or say things that others may laugh at during the scene without realizing that they are doing so. It is very cute and is most often accompanied by giggles and snorts of derision. The next level goes deeper, where the ditzy feelings begin. Forgetting commands, looking spacey, intoxicated feelings; speaking slows if not stops and the submissive is reliant on the Dominant to monitor them. The final section is primal. Moaning, grunting, multiple orgasms (sometimes without touching), hypersensitivity to tactile and other forms of sensory input.... and being completely out of it. But then...the body drops from the high...and aftercare from your Dominant begins. Subspace is a warm and fuzzy place if you are safe with your dominant. You will find that once you experience it, the longing to experience it again will be something you will have to control. Let's go...I'm booking flights :) DJ
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